69ways Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Been together 5 years. we broke out of the blue and she was blaming the distance and her depression together with some minor faults on by behalf. Tried to sort it but she did not want me back. Now 10 months down the drain and after admitting 4 months ago, I am the only one for her, she called 1 month ago and panicked if I have a gf and if have whats he name. Now she calls again to tell me she has been depressive for a year and she only trusts me to ask me about her going for therapy and she should had done that before we broke up. Any thoughts? have posted it in another part of the forum but here is more appropriate.
ijdk Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 (edited) Let her get some therapy and show signs of major improvement before you start anything with her. Sounds like she some needs self repairs to complete. Also if you are there for her emotionally for this process she will probably want you more than ever but she might not get better and might not be the best choice for you. Edited November 15, 2011 by ijdk
Author 69ways Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 Let her get some therapy and show signs of major improvement before you start anything with her. Sounds like she some needs self repairs to complete. Thank, does it sound like she is not over me? BTW she dropped me two days after she bought her engagement dress and she was said some really terrible things to me. She also kept her ring and said no one will love me like you.....
ChelseaLS Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 Thank, does it sound like she is not over me? BTW she dropped me two days after she bought her engagement dress and she was said some really terrible things to me. She also kept her ring and said no one will love me like you..... The fact that she dropped you two days after the dress and ring... I see as scared. The fact that she calls you and says all this stuff about only trusting you re: therapy... I see as you are comfortable to her. Is she over you? No. Does she want you back? It's pretty vague. I hate when people say crap like that "no one will love me like you"... well then why did you leave? She needs to spend some time in therapy before she can make any clear decissions regarding your past relationship, the future and what she wants. Don't hop back into this one, without some progress.
Author 69ways Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 The fact that she dropped you two days after the dress and ring... I see as scared. The fact that she calls you and says all this stuff about only trusting you re: therapy... I see as you are comfortable to her. Is she over you? No. Does she want you back? It's pretty vague. I hate when people say crap like that "no one will love me like you"... well then why did you leave? She needs to spend some time in therapy before she can make any clear decissions regarding your past relationship, the future and what she wants. Don't hop back into this one, without some progress. I agree with you, I hate them too
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