chados Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 al right, my ex gf dumped me because she thought i didn't need her/cared about her. the reason for that is simple, we didn't live together but we talked every day. and when i traveled for only one week, and didn't talk to her the first 2-3 days she started to feel lonely and told me that she never missed me this much. i really think she loved me more then could imagine. two months went by and she acted like she were unhappy, she did want to talk with me, i said i wanna talk to you to. so we did, "she actually thought i was going to dump her" but i didnt. she told me she thought i didnt care about her. and i told her that i felt the same way about her. she also said that she felt i was afraid of her. "lack of confident according to me". the reason for that is that when i was feeling like she didnt appreciate me i started to pull back, not much but she noticed. and then she did the same and thought i was going to change. no one understood that everything was a misunderstanding. everything were fine until she went to another city for 1,5 week. i started to call/text her and of course BAD MISTAKE. i was starting to acting clingy and needy. and when she came back she dumped me. she cried and told me that she was feeling that i just said stuff because she told me to, i was afraid of her, didn't care. i was acting cool and said that i cant change in one week, we told each other we were going to give this a chance, its not a big problem that need to be solved. i didnt talk to her for two weeks when she asked how i was. i made it short and told her i have to go, i can speak to you another day, i texted her two days later, she answered very fast on every message , took her about 1 min. and i said i have to go now, took her 10 minutes to answer that one, and she said good luck with your training. "was going to the gym". a few days ago i texted on facebook that im going to a city, actually the city were she studies, some of my friend are going with me, and they answered my status "i want to follow". its not to meet her, my friend are going to look for a new car. i said it was either tuesday or wednesday. a friend added me on facebook today "a girl" so its tuesday , were going to the city and a girl added me on facebook. and now she texted me. what are you going to do here?. i haven't answered. i do want her back. should i answer and is she jealous? maybe thinks that i'm going to meet some girl? i know girls change their feelings quick, and sometimes they do mistakes like everyone else. sorry i tried to make it short but i couldn't. and sorry if my english are messy. thank you so much for answers!!
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