b_80_h Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 You know what lawlz_xD..It better for you to move on now...Try a new life with some else...So said that your in College now...I'm sure there's a Lot of girls there that is deserving for your attention...you just not notice her because you putting you're attention in that girl in past.. More than likely, you'll find someone in college who fits so much better. That's the time when everyone is exploring new facets of life, so you'll possibly find someone to grow with
b_80_h Posted November 18, 2011 Posted November 18, 2011 If I didn't talk to her...what would happen in the long run...? Honestly, that thought will walk you into a trap. Trust me when I say this: High school girls are NOT good representations of women. Just like high school boys are shallow idiots who act on impulse (I should know, I was one), high school girls often have no idea the kind of hurt they inflict. High school isn't the place that you grow up during. It takes you a little bit to grow out of the immaturity, and it's rare to find people who did it before everyone else. If she cares or cared at some point, she'll find a way to make it known to you as she grows. Don't worry about the long run, and keep your chin up.
Author lawlz_xD Posted November 24, 2011 Author Posted November 24, 2011 Thanks for all the honest advice fellas. It's really helped me and opened my eyes further to who she really is. I've been NC for about a week and a half now and i've been doing MUCH better! I wake up and tell myself everyday that I deserve someone better. Today is Thanksgiving and she sends me this text (after a week and a half of not talking, which is the longest we've ever gone without not talking without officially being "not friends or not together"): "I love you forever and ever, no matter what the circumstances. I hope you know that. I hope you have an amazing time with your family and see you this weekend hopefully. Love always." When I read this text, I didn't feel hurt...I didn't feel confusion, I just felt nothing. I suppose that's a good thing? Before I decided to go NC (and before she told me she met someone else), we had planned to meet up (after 2 months of not seeing each other) and hang out FINALLY. I was planning to use this meetup to tell her that I was done. Anyways, just wanted to share that with you guys. A part of me does want to meet up with her and just give her a hug and give her closure but I know that's probably a bad idea and would set me back.
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