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11 plus years and then the break up

Shattered dreams

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Shattered dreams

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We were doing just fine before we migrated to the US. we have been together for more than 11 years (dated since Highschool). The day we arrived in the US, he started acting differently, he ignored me and was very distant. At first I thought he was just overwhelmed with our new environment. Until a month after

my boyfriend broke up with me. I found out that he was hooking up with one of my best friends (their relationship started back in our home country) and is having a Long distance relationship. I was really shocked and hurt. I talked to my best friend and she was not willing to stop the relationship. My Ex boyfriend chose her and dumped me..

 

I left the house immediately and stayed in a hotel. While i was away, he keeps on texting me and telling me he misses me. We had our final talk, and he told me he still loves me and that i was not the 2nd option. but he loves her too. in short he gave me up.

 

We still see each other coz I live at his cousin's house. He stopped texting me, but about a few days ago, I slept in their house. when he saw me, he started to make a move, but was really trying hard not to start an intimate night. Ending is we had sex that night and the next night. I know he is still in touch with my ex bestfriend and that they are in a long distance relationship right now.

 

I am wondering if it's just that easy to forget the years we've been together, I love him so dearly, and i am really hoping we can patch things up. I dont know what to do right now. is there any chance i can get him back/?

 

 

any advice please?

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ChelseaLS Established Member

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First I know it hurts, but do you really want him back? I mean do you think you could ever trust him again? Hell, it was two of the people you thought you could trust.

 

I would pull away from him. No contact, he needs to seriously think things through, he needs to miss you. You need time to grow and learn, find your strength and confidence. You need time to heal your heart from this pain. If you just take him back, you're bound to get hurt again and again.

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