A story

[damadulo]

I began dating the girl I loved 10 months ago. She had been recently rejected by a common friend and I knew I could be rebound, but tried to make her love me. She since declared to love me too, and we've had good moments... coupled with terrible arguments. I'm pretty sure I've always been understanding, fair, honest and admitted my mistakes when I committed them. To her, everything I do is wrong, piles up and discussions get more overblown as time goes by. She forgives but doesn't forget. We're incompatible. I've ruined her life. She doesn't admire me. We will not work. I don't do any sacrifices. I never do anything the way she wants. All of this I have to hear. I've neglected time with my family, friends and even my studies frequently, but still can't seem to make her happy. A week ago, we had our worst argument. It began with her telling me to leave her; I started walking away, and she grabs me and shouts she can't believe I'm leaving. Then she won't let me sleep in her house, I call my father for a ride, and she says it's all over because I really believed she wouldn't let me sleep in her house. She takes me home, I get out of the car and she grabs me and begins saying things like "I can't be without you", "you're the best thing that ever happened to me", etc. I feel insane, breakdown and finally ask her to leave and haven't been or talked with her since - even turned off my phone until yesterday (when I had to read several love declarations she sent me in the meantime). I'm borderline anemic. I love her, but this is the end for me. I feel I should say something more, she seems to want some (more) closure, but I'm a wreck. I don't want to see or hear her. Silence is terrible but is it ever justifiable? For the better or the worse, we meant something to each other... At least she did to me...

[nathanjbrown1]

Yah you're right damadulo..but both of you needs time to think all those things..and also it need for you two to talk seriously so that both of you could clear things..