spe1950 Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Alright, so I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks or so now. We get along great and to be honest I could tell that she really liked me at first. We've hung out a few times and every time it's been really good and nothing has gone wrong. But lately I can't tell if she's interested in pursuing anything further with me. She always takes a while to text back, but she's been taking extra long lately. In her defense, she's very busy. I'm very busy as well, so I understand that. But last weekend we were supposed to meet up with a group of friends out at a bar and she never texted me back. She texted me the next afternoon saying sorry because she had run into a group of friends from her high school so it got chaotic. The weird thing is when we do talk it feels good and normal, but the ignoring of some texts/taking a long time to answer is starting to make me wonder a little. I'm starting to think that maybe she's confused about what she wants and let me explain. She is applying to other schools and is planning on transfering after the spring if she's accepted. Is it possible perhaps she likes me, but is pulling back because she doesn't want to get into something if she knows she's probably leaving? I've begun to think that is a real possibility...either that, or she just doesn't want a relationship. Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. I've thought about straight up asking her what she thinks about us and where we're heading, but I haven't got the nerves up to do it yet. I've also thought about just moving on and stopping communication with her, but I like her a lot and really would like to give her a shot...thanks in advance.
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