UofLCards Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Hey guys. Thought I would come back and share my story since it's been awhile since I have been here last. For those that remember (probably don't) I was in a bad situation with my SO. We have 3 kids together and she was hooked on drugs and alcohol very badly. She had gotten 2 DUI's and was cheating on me with another man. She was bringing this man into our house while I was at work and sometimes he was still there with her when I got home from work. Things were really bad. After not being able to deal with her and her situation anymore I left and got custody of my 3 children. I have had custody for close to a year now. Just recently we started meeting my kids mother (my ex SO) on the weekends to let her spend time with the kids since I have full custody without her having any unsupervised visits. This was just a agreement we worked out between me and her for her to see the kids. Since I have been meeting with her and letting her see the kids she has expressed over and over that she still is in love with me and wants to work on us. She says she will do anything if I give her a second chance and she will not doing anything to mess up our relationship if I did give her that second chance. Me personally I am starting to (or have always had) feelings for her again. I hate it that it is happening, thinking back, because of all the things she put me through in the past and all the lies, cheating and pain she caused me. I don't know what to do in my situation. Don't know if I should give her another chance at trying to work on us, our family or just realize that she will never change and is not the one for me. I have told her over and over that if I ever did actually give her that second chance that it would have to be a long time from now and she would have to show me that she is changed and I won't be hurt again nor our children. What do I do in my situation?
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