barriob Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Well after a month of NC I contact my ex and he texts back. and we continue to text for a couple of days. He says we should hang out, but he never follows through with his plans. So I text him to see whats up and he never writes back. He hasnt text me in like 3 days!! i dont understand, what happened???
lymtal1 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 barriob, based on what you described and you may not want to hear this, you are an option for him. he is keeping you around incase something else is not available or he needs an ego boost. This just based on the small amout of info you provided. This specifically because you initiated contact after not being in contact with him for a month. He did not come to you hence he was doing ok but I am sure would love to "hang out" so long as he doesn't have other plans. or he was feeling guilty for breaking up with you if that was the case. Sorry to make it sound so bad but just my guess. think you should let him go for now and let him do the contacting in the future. go back to n/c and get feeling better. just curious, what made you brake n/c?
joseph17 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 I would stay NC and let him contact you. Who knows what happened. Maybe he still has feelings for and decided that seeing you wasn't a good idea. Why he did not tell you who knows. concentrate on healing yourself and everything will be okay
Author barriob Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 i broke nc because i missed him and had a weak moment. Idk he hasnt text me :/
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