Ideas ?

[MiaD]

A month ago my husband of 30 years who I love deeply sent me an e-mail while working overseas saying he needed a change and was unhappy. Heard no more for a week then wanted to separate. Will not communicate in any way with me at all and when family memebrs find out he will not communicate with them either. Got an e-mail a few days ago saying he will honour all financial matters. Apart from that zero. I have tried and so have others but he will not communicate.

 

I am on the verge of a breakdown and have no idea what to do. A month ago we were happy or so I thought and how can he throw away everything without talking to me? He has told my children he has no immediate plans to come home so what now? (This was before he srated his no communication). Icannot go where he is as it is not possible for me or others to go there.

 

Everybody is stunned as this is so out of character.

 

Suggestions...?

[YaOldBuckaroo]

Hi MiaD

 

Maybe you should find out what's making him unhappy, and address those problems. Seems a little drastic, and it's hard to understand why he's doing that because you didn't post the reasons why he's acting like that.

 

Max

[MiaD]

I have no idea as he will not communicate with me in any way. Only the original unhappy and wants to be alone and then to separate. In e-mails to him (which he does not reply to) I have asked many questions and offered lots of solutions to help us. I get nothing and it is the same if anyone else tries to contact him.

 

The only recent communication from him was to say he will honour all financial obligations. Apart from that nothing. He doesn't ask how I am just zero.

 

This is why i am looking for suggestions.

[UntoldStory]

Unfortunately it really sounds as though he's met someone else.

[Lis007]

Oh poor you MiAD.... You are stuck knowing why until he communicates with you... Sorry this is happening to your family.

 

HUGS