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Hey everyone, so I have a situation in my relationship that I'm struggling to deal with.

 

I am a senior in college and am dating my girlfriend of eight months who is a first-year graduate student.

 

I was at another University two weekends ago because our football team was playing their team. I stayed with my friend who had this really, really cute roommate that I was flirting with (and vise versa) all weekend. She has a boyfriend.

 

We didn't hook up, but did take a nap together and stuff.

 

Any way, I developed a little crush on her and it's only making things worse with my current girlfriend as she is upset that I didn't talk to her for the weekend I was up there.

 

This crush I have is pretty unrealistic and I have no intentions of pursuing it, but it's made me wonder whether I am happy with my relationship or not.

 

I really do have feelings for my girlfriend, though I don't know whether I should call it quits or not and it is really tearing me up and my relationship because I'm not into it as much anymore and not sure how to approach this situation.

 

I realize I sound like a selfish person and I apologize, it's just something that I don't know how to deal with and was wondering if anyone had any advice.

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Any way, I developed a little crush on her and it's only making things worse with my current girlfriend as she is upset that I didn't talk to her for the weekend I was up there.

 

Your emotions are in turmoil. Give it a week or two for your emotions to settle out, and it will make more sense to you.

 

Keep in mind that the crush is biologically based, not rationally based.

 

I really do have feelings for my girlfriend, though I don't know whether I should call it quits or not and it is really tearing me up and my relationship because I'm not into it as much anymore and not sure how to approach this situation.

 

Feelings are overrated. Feelings will guide you into an endless string of short term relationships and one night stands, until you are too old for sex.

 

Stick with the relationship indefinitely.

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