Criticize your own gender

[azsinglegal]

I think women talk too much and if they spent half as much time listening as they do talking, they might learn something.

[PlumPrincess]

I wonder if Woggle is enjoying watching women castigate themselves?

 

I find this thread somewhat weird.

[Woggle]

I wonder if Woggle is enjoying watching women castigate themselves?

 

I find this thread somewhat weird.

 

This thread was not just about one gender. I even criticized men myself.

[counterman]

I generally get along pretty well with other men. Especially non alpha type men. But even the alpha types, I'm usually pretty cool with, if not extremely tight.

 

The only real complaint I have is with men who feel like they need to put other men down to ease their own securities. Guys who put down guys shorter, smaller, or guys they perceive to be less attractive than them.

 

I mean, I've had a guy an inch taller than me and maybe 20 pounds heavier call me a TINY GUY.

 

Generally, it doesn't have to do with the guy's looks either. I've met some tall, good looking dudes who were really down to earth cool guys. Guys that I consider a real catch for a woman.

 

I've noticed this from a lot of my guy friends from high school. They would put down their own friends by calling them short and teasing them in the most humiliating ways. I was the subject at times but after high school, things changed and I dropped them. If they go too far, I call them out straight away.

[El Brujo]

Guys who try to make the rest of us feel gypped because they dare us to compete with their overly macho image.

[chrissylee]

1.Women are way to worried about how much money a guys has.

2.Women hold grudges.

3.Women use sex to get their way.

4.Women cry alot

5.Women think they are better then everyone esle.

6.Women expect too much from guys

7.Women are way to worried about marriage

8.Women act stupid for attention

 

Thankfully not all women are like this or I would be a very lonely person....

I also really hope I don't do any of these things.

[RecordProducer]

What I really don't like sometimes is the constant competition, like some huge dick measuring contest -- who's better at this, who's better at that, who's got the hottest girlfriend.

This is indeed gross - and women do the same.

 

I said for people to criticize their own gender. This means both genders. I am not leaving men out of it.

Sorry, sorry... my stupidity.

 

This is just a surreptitious way of Woggle getting women to attack themselves.

Hahah! Wog,you're busted!

 

I disagree, it's healthy to express generic things you don't like about your own gender.

Of course, more than anything in the world, women like to "express generic things" (read: talk sh*t) about other women!

 

I don't have one single female friend; I think most women are competitive, catty and straight up bitches.

I have a hard time trusting women. I've been disappointed in women so many times and I've never been disappointed in men (not counting ex-partners). The only men I've intensely disliked are people I've had problems with from day one and never been friends with them. But women befriend you and then throw you under the bus.

 

Expecting to get a great deal out of life because of physical appearance.

If men are willing to accept the deal, how is that the women's fault? I absolutely don't see physical beauty as a factor of success or happiness. Appearance, in terms of looking classy, clean-cut, stylish, confident... maybe. But, unless you want to be a celebrity, a great face and body only brings misery. Don't forget that good-looking people are a constant target of other people's jealousy. And on average, I am conviced, they are no happier than anyone else. I also don't think that rich people are happier than the middle class.

 

whenever there's women together, they talk about stupidest, mindless small talk, "oh my gooosh, like, i knooooooooow, i totally did the same thing last year, and then...." Shut the **** up, seriously

You go girl!

 

Yes, I'm helping raise a delicate young lady (ha ha).

This world is not made for delicate girls anymore. Only the strong women will survive! Even manipulation won't work anymore, because men have learned the tricks women use to get their money. I think men and women both arein a terrible transitional phase right now; both genders are weak and can't make use of their strengths. Men are afraid of women because they're emasculated, and women are afraid because men are quick to jump off the boat. In the past women were weak and men were strong. Women raised kids, men provided. Of course, most of us don't want those times back, but my point is that there was peace between the genders then because the roles were compatible. Now the roles are conflicting: both genders want security AND independence at the same time.

 

I think women talk too much and if they spent half as much time listening as they do talking, they might learn something.

... from... men, right?

 

Guys who try to make the rest of us feel gypped because they dare us to compete with their overly macho image.

True, men always compete over the macho image, just like women compete in the looks department. You'll rarely hear any sex being jealous of someone's intelligence - unless they perceive intelligence as a money-making factor.

[Alexz]

There is nothing to criticize.

 

Men and women both have flaws, disregarding gender. Its our personalities and experiences that define our reasoning and perception. And to indulge in a decrying notion is to provoke erroneous and undeserved subjectivity.

 

I am upset that human nature doesn't provide generosity and genuine empathy. We do our best to promote it, but it rubs off on the few and select.

[RecordProducer]

What I REALLY, REALLY hate about women is their readiness to take another woman's husband. When I was married to my ex, even though he didn't cheat (to the best of my knowledge), I witnessed a few women who openly tried to break us up and take him away from me. The sent him gifts, lovey-dovey cards, and even told me in one way or another to stay out of their way. One of them, a doctor from across the country, who re-appeared in his life after 15 years and immediately asked him for a huge loan, told me "Go on with your life!" when I told her "What's up with the kisses and cards - he is my husband, we're married, we're together,we sleep together?" The thing is we were living separately at the time but we were married and spending 24/7 together and sleeping with each other. I could never humiliate myself and tell somebody's wife to f*** off.

 

None of these women ever ended up with him, not even for one night. But, I learned a lesson about women: If you're a woman and want to befriend another woman - "go on with your life! "Run, sister!

[thatone]

i'm truly surprised at how honest all the women are being in this thread .

 

that said, my complaints about most men...

 

a) the (usually false) macho facade. most of them come off looking like idiots, because after years of disregarding everyone else they meet to make themselves try to appear superior, they are idiots by virtue of not learning anything.

 

b) someone else mentioned it, but lack of adult education. the whole idea that men are only supposed to care about football and hunting and fishing and cars because that's what men do. well, sorry, but that's BS. our society is tasteless enough, if half of it can't dress themselves properly or furnish an apartment because they think they're not supposed to then that's a problem. i like football too, but i can pick out my own shirts, ffs.

 

c) spinoff of B, but the least educated and least knowledgeable men seem to have this need to pretend like they know everything. that's also BS, and they even behave that way toward other men, not just women. seriously, there are men that you could walk up to and say "i just found the cure for cancer" and they'd say "yeah we did that in college a few years ago". if you're that guy, you're not fooling anyone.

 

speaking of, i'm sure the women don't know who he is because they're not sports people but jim rome has a hilarious set of stereotypical bits about these men...

 

golf guy...

 

 

gym guy...

 

 

corvette guy...

 

 

softball guy...

 

[the wizard]

Guys that go for another man's girl when they infact know she's taken and sometimes have a woman of their own. Guys that knock another man down just because said man is doing what he is supposed to and the benefits he reaped show for it, don't hate - appreciate.

[the wizard]

Guys that hang around and act as friends and acquaintances when really they're just trying to **** your girlfriend **** those guys

[freestyle]

Guys that hang around and act as friends and acquaintances when really they're just trying to **** your girlfriend **** those guys

 

 

women can be JUST as bad about that. It's beneath contempt, from either gender, as far as I'm concerned--faking friendship, just to get a foot in the door......

[Negative Nancy]

I bought a 50 lb chair from Staples and I carried to my place PIECE BY PIECE. Took me 10 trips to the underground garage and probably took half an hour but I don't need a man for nothing.

 

lol that is not even heavy, what an accomplishment i use that weight in the gym to warm up for deadlifts

[KathyM]

* Many women have no respect for marriage or a commited relationship, and will try to work their way into getting a man who is already taken.

 

* Many women are very competitive with other women, and will make snide remarks or insults veiled as compliments to a woman they perceive as being better than them in order to make themselves feel good.

 

* Many women think that having a man is the most important thing in life, and they'll do anything to get one or get the one they want, regardless of what they have to do in their attempt.

 

* Many women are too gossipy and they tend to make a big deal out of every little thing, and are too adept at creating unnecessary drama.

 

* Today's women are too quick to hop into bed with any bum that gives them the time of day, and then they wonder why a man doesn't want to commit.

 

* Today's women want a dream kitchen in their house, but they wouldn't know what to do with it. It's just for looks.

[PlumPrincess]

This thread was not just about one gender. I even criticized men myself.

When I see a woman criticize other women, it often looks a little bit fishy to me, but that's just a feeling of mine.

[joystickd]

When I see a woman criticize other women, it often looks a little bit fishy to me, but that's just a feeling of mine.

 

The thing is when you look at it some of the issues men/women have about their own gender are some of the same issues men/women have about the opposite gender. I think these two threads were intended to show that we both have some of the same struggles in dating. The thing is it presents itself in different ways.

 

I think after recognizing these issues its time to get to the reasons why they are so people can stop treating dating with an us vs them mentality.

[Woggle]

When I see a woman criticize other women, it often looks a little bit fishy to me, but that's just a feeling of mine.

 

Men are criticizing other men as well. I thought this thread would be a chance for people to look in the mirrot instead of always pointing the finger.

[Taramere]

Men are criticizing other men as well. I thought this thread would be a chance for people to look in the mirrot instead of always pointing the finger.

 

That would involve them presenting things that annoy them about themselves, rather than things that annoy them about other members of their gender. Though sometimes it boils down to the same thing.

[dasein]

That would involve them presenting things that annoy them about themselves, rather than things that annoy them about other members of their gender. Though sometimes it boils down to the same thing.

 

I for one have been guilty in life of most, maybe all the criticisms I listed.

[Untouchable_Fire]

One thing that irritates me about other men today is the complete disappearance of personal honor.

[Elysian Powder]

What pisses me off about my sex is that, despite more than overwhelming evidence that human beings aren't monogamous, men go ahead and shackle themselves to women, completely oblivious to all of the extremely unhappy men around them; they don't even inform themselves about the extremely anti-male laws created by the feminists under the pretense of bringing equality, but truthfully, creating a much wider gap of rights and entitlements, handing everything to women, leaving men to be nothing more than work horses, alimony payers, and the financiers of their ex-wives via an exorbitant child-support, a form of bank-raiding the Marxists created and deployed by inflating the values of child-support to ridiculous amounts as another retirement plan for the women who found gold(a guy dumb enough to marry her, average woman or not, gold-digger, or ''strong and independent'').

 

I also don't like how most men think that their girlfriends are more important than their friends. Most relationships don't result in marriage and I suspect that most relationships are terminated by women to upgrade their guy on the side to boyfriend status, and when the relationship overcomes it's ''hurdles'', marriage occurs, but after a couple of years it is given the name of divorce and again; guess which sex initiated the divorce?

 

Guys, you lot don't need to form relationships to have sex. Relationships are overbearingly oppressive, nothing more than a trap to institute obligations and responsibleness, on a man, for a woman, and the sex grows stale and repetitive because it's only had with one woman.

 

Not every man can tap a fountain out of water to replace it with free sex through a variated assembly of willing women, but sex is far more pleasure when you are attracted to the women and nothing is stopping ya'll from flying down to Holland or Germany and whatever and have your fill of very attractive, young women - who'll fulfill all of your desires for a small fee.

 

A fee much smaller than what you're obliged to pay during the length of a relationship, lest you're dating a rich woman(if you are doing that; marry her! She'll pay you alimony!), and you won't waste your life catering to a dream, love, a fantasy created by the Church and later on reinforced by the state to imprison men and act as motivation to stay within society and to work and provide for women, in exchange for a ''real'', ''truthful'', ''mind-blowing' emotional'' relationship with a woman.

 

LOL

 

Visit Ibiza during the summer to experience mind-blowing Bjs, and defaecate the Matriarchy that wants to add your teeth and scalp to it's collection of men who wanted to do the ''right thing''.

 

And no, I don't hate women nor am I bitter But I'm undoubtedly going to be painted as a Jack the Ripper because I don't worship on the altar of worn-out pussaaay LOL.

Edited November 15, 2011 by Elysian Powder

[RecordProducer]

lol that is not even heavy, what an accomplishment i use that weight in the gym to warm up for deadlifts

So, you're stronger than she is - is that your point? You're mocking her strength?

 

You don't carry chairs at the gym. You lift dumbbells.

[Queen Zenobia]

So, you're stronger than she is - is that your point? You're mocking her strength?

 

You don't carry chairs at the gym. You lift dumbbells.

 

Perhaps we've all been going to the wrong gym...

[KathyM]

Sounds like maybe you are too ugly to keep a man? Like I said, you messed with the wrong person

lol. I have a husband. Thanks for asking. btw, I suggest you seek counseling. You have serious issues, my dear.