Jono85 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 women, in my experience (<< key words) are cowards. they'd rather end the relationship by either running away and not giving you closure, or they start lining up another option while in the relationship and telling you they love you, until they are sure they won't be alone. again, these are only my experiences, but the two times in my life that a girl didn't want to be with me anymore they chose the easy way out instead of coming to me maturely, and telling me the feelings aren't there anymore, etc. i was pretty crushed with both. one of them unfortunately spent the following few years trying to get back with me (this was after just disappearing basically and ignoring me to end our relationship...she later returned a few months later begging for my forgiveness) but it was too late, she lost my respect. please women, be honest. a man will respect you 1000x more for being upfront with him. don't burn bridges, even if you don't think u want anything to do with him romantically ever again. i just chalk it up to bad, or lack of, parenting. some people have no morals; it's not even their fault.
Author joystickd Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 women, in my experience (<< key words) are cowards. they'd rather end the relationship by either running away and not giving you closure, or they start lining up another option while in the relationship and telling you they love you, until they are sure they won't be alone. again, these are only my experiences, but the two times in my life that a girl didn't want to be with me anymore they chose the easy way out instead of coming to me maturely, and telling me the feelings aren't there anymore, etc. i was pretty crushed with both. one of them unfortunately spent the following few years trying to get back with me (this was after just disappearing basically and ignoring me to end our relationship...she later returned a few months later begging for my forgiveness) but it was too late, she lost my respect. please women, be honest. a man will respect you 1000x more for being upfront with him. don't burn bridges, even if you don't think u want anything to do with him romantically ever again. i just chalk it up to bad, or lack of, parenting. some people have no morals; it's not even their fault. Sometimes when that happens you have to step up and do something. Men know something isn't going good and hate to acknowledge it because we become so emotionally invested in the situation. I learned that when that happens you say hey what's going on here. If you get nothing then its time to go your separate ways. A lot of people get mistreated because the other person knows you are not leaving. So next time don't be afraid to show a woman the door and tell her to get on like she got sh*t on. In situations women do need to be honest and in the same token you can't be afraid to show her the door
Author joystickd Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 - men only want young women Somewhat true but in cases where its a secretary or a coworker he got to know that person and got a connection. I will also say in some instances men want a younger woman because they have less baggage. It hard man or woman to date someone that has baggage. I know for me I like to date older women particularly in their 40s. There are women that like younger men for that same reason. Its hard to have a connection with a person that on some level has some bitterness from the past. Some think its looks but there are women in their 30s and 40s that look a hell of a lot better than a woman in her 20s.
Author joystickd Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 - men are always overgrown children, when observing men in an all-male profession, you feel like you're watching kids in play school Working in an all women profession is drama. I'm a nurse and all I hear is she did this or did you hear about her. Once I looked at a woman and said if you feel this way about this person then go and tell then instead of being a damn phony. I see the competition and passive aggression first hand and its crazy.
Jono85 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 (edited) Sometimes when that happens you have to step up and do something. Men know something isn't going good and hate to acknowledge it because we become so emotionally invested in the situation. I learned that when that happens you say hey what's going on here. If you get nothing then its time to go your separate ways. A lot of people get mistreated because the other person knows you are not leaving. So next time don't be afraid to show a woman the door and tell her to get on like she got sh*t on. In situations women do need to be honest and in the same token you can't be afraid to show her the door yeah i agree, but sometimes their actions are hard to decipher. one of the girls in my situation (the one who had someone lined up), she was just a great actress. you're right tho my gut was telling me something was up (flashes of hot and cold), and so i would even ask her about it, but she'd give me great excuses (it was her last semester of uni, etc). and a week before i found out she was still talking to her ex behind my back and trying to work things out with him, we had our best day/evening in our relationship and she initiated our first i love yous, and i'm telling u it was an oscar worthy performance by her that evening. anyhow, yes Mircea i'm def still a bit bitter, it was just under a year ago. and even though i have a new gf who's head over heals in love with me, it still angers me to think about it (also b/c there were other things AFTER that incident she did that were dispicable), but it's def getting much much better. have been in strict NC since january. Edited November 15, 2011 by Jono85
Jono85 Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 A , to you. ) that's basically how i feel. screw all that make peace and have forgiveness for the ex blah blah blah i wish nothing but failure towards her and i'm content with that ha. thank you for the gift
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