shi shi Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I'm just so lost. Me & my partner has been together for 23 months (1year 11 months) we met when I was 17 & he was 21 & throughout the relationship we have had so many arguments & break ups, but we always get back together. We have never been anywhere together he always comes to see me at my house or we laugh & chill out in a park. Although we have been together for a long time he says he doesn't love me, he says he's not in love with me but he has love for me & that burns me because I love him so much. This is like my 1st proper relationship. He's told me that he loved b4 & the girl he was with broke his heart, but I felt hurt because I feel like I'm second best & felt like I'm feeling pain because of someone else. Although we did argue a lot we tried to sort things out & make things work & he started being a lot nicer to me & I tried to be less arguementative with him & we was going all right until november 1st I brought up the convo about him not loving me & loving another girl & he must of been saying things to me but I was giving him straight answers like 'okay' 'alright' & that obviously peed him off & he started being horrible & saying things like when you chat rubbish my respect level goes down for you & I'm starting to feel like I don't wana be with you. & I was upset coz everytime we argue this is what it results in a break up. So I said to him ' leave me alone. If you don't want to be with me then stop talking to me. Because I aint even done nothing. All I'm saying is alright & ok. So if everytime I say alright & okay your gonna break up with me I suggest you just leave me alone. cah I can't be living this kinda life forever, its just to much, after I'm there telling u bout my feelings & you turn around & use the relationship against me:/ then you wonder why I show you hatred, jus look at the things you do to me when things get though' & he said a few more things but the convo just ended. A couple of days later I tried talking to him but he was ignoring all my bbms & everything. So I'm the type of person if I'm upset I update my bbm status all the time saying all types of things especially to pee him off. & he says things to but not as much as me. But on thursday 10th november I put up a status saying 'adults sort problems out, & little kids avoid & run away, which one are you?' Then he said "one that doesn't wana be with you for sure' so I replied but he never responded once again. & on friday 11th of november I put up a status saying 'ping me when you get in' & I don't know if I peed him off coz on saturday morning he was no longer on my bbm & I was upset I sent him a long message & I got no response. I even called him & he hung up the fone on me. I'm just hurting because this time I believe our relationship was going so well & he just messed it up. I'm just confused someone please help... I can't even begin to tell u what I've been through.
fredrickhsalas Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I think both of you must have time away from each other so that both of you can think deeply what are those thing needs to be decided between of you two...do some counseling or recollect your self..after that schedule a time for you to talk and settle things up.
Author shi shi Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 But fredrick remember he's ignoring me. He even hung up the phone when I called hiim. So really & truely hoe am I ment to communicate with someone who ignores me? Because what your saying is a good idea, that we should talk. But things has changed he used to be the one who wants to talk & I would run. Now I'm the one who wants to talk & he runs
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