mr_sexxxy Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I have weird conversations with girls. They can't relax around me. They're almost always at a loss for words. They won't compliment me but are quick to insinuate I sleep around or party a lot. They walk up to talk to me or touch me but then they say something rude. Or, they will walk right up to me but won't say anything or even look me in the eye. It seems like a lot of girls lack confidence in talking to guys but they still try anyway?
forms Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 No. Not possible. JFK jr had no trouble getting women. Neither does Geo Clooney. It is possible though to be too stuck on one's attractiveness.
PlumPrincess Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I have weird conversations with girls. They can't relax around me. They're almost always at a loss for words. They won't compliment me but are quick to insinuate I sleep around or party a lot. They walk up to talk to me or touch me but then they say something rude. Or, they will walk right up to me but won't say anything or even look me in the eye. It seems like a lot of girls lack confidence in talking to guys but they still try anyway? You're such a troll, seriously.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I have weird conversations with girls. They can't relax around me. They're almost always at a loss for words. They're trying to get you to leave. Women usually/always have better social skills than men.
SingleinSouth Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I've never even see you and I'm at a loss for words at how repetitive and shallow your threads are.
missed_theboat Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Not possible to be too attractive--definitely possible to be too arrogant and conceited.
USCGAviator Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 As a specimen, yes, I'm intimidating! My what a guy, that Gaston
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 As a specimen, yes, I'm intimidating! My what a guy, that Gaston You're funny!
Mme. Chaucer Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Okay, seriously. Is there really a such thing as an actual man who walks around absolutely preoccupied with what he looks like and the profound effect this has on every woman? I've been alive for more than half a century, and I have NEVER encountered such a thing. Now I'm here on LS and there's you, Mr Dream Merchant, Shaun-Dro, and SteveC80 (or something like that) and ALL of you seem obsessed with your looks and charms. PLEASE, please be a troll and his family of sock puppets! Otherwise, I'm not sure I am going to be able to accept the reality that there is a guy (or several!) walking around thinking 100% of his waking hours about how hot he is!
CarrieT Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I would give you a heartfelt, honest and serious answer, but I can't relax enough to tell you what I really feel because I am so taken with your charm and gorgeousity...
Citizen Erased Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Do you by any chance walk into a lot of things cos you're too busy looking at yourself in anything that reflects your apparent Godly mug?
Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 You are old lonely and bitter and have nothing better to do than troll this forum with your negativity. Okay, seriously. Is there really a such thing as an actual man who walks around absolutely preoccupied with what he looks like and the profound effect this has on every woman? I've been alive for more than half a century, and I have NEVER encountered such a thing. Now I'm here on LS and there's you, Mr Dream Merchant, Shaun-Dro, and SteveC80 (or something like that) and ALL of you seem obsessed with your looks and charms. PLEASE, please be a troll and his family of sock puppets! Otherwise, I'm not sure I am going to be able to accept the reality that there is a guy (or several!) walking around thinking 100% of his waking hours about how hot he is!
oaks Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 OP, I seriously doubt that your problem is that you're too attractive.
Beachgirl8 Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I'm going to seriously answer your question. There are a lot of extremely good looking men in Miami where I live. I have no problem talking to them. The problem is, if they are that attractive, they only want to talk about the following topics: 1) the gym. What they did at the gym today, how strong they are getting, how many inches their bicep measures, their bodyfat %, etc 2) food. Specifically, grilled chicken and protein shakes. 3) how they look. What people think about how they look. If their hair looks good today. If their jeans and shirt look good. If they should get their teeth whitened. How other guys are jealous of them. What compliments they have received about their looks. How everyone thinks they are a player. It is repetitive and uninteresting to talk to guys like this because they are obsessed with themselves. NOT because I am intimidated by their attractiveness. If they had something to talk about other than themselves AND were very attractive I would die from shock. So to answer your question, yes you are "too attractive" if you let it go to your head and exclude all other thoughts from your brain because then you have ruined yourself as a person and you are missing out on connecting with people on any level other than the superficial.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 How many times are you going to post this Right Said Fred? You had one hit in the 90s. And it was a cheesy one.
grkBoy Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I have weird conversations with girls. They can't relax around me. They're almost always at a loss for words. They won't compliment me but are quick to insinuate I sleep around or party a lot. They walk up to talk to me or touch me but then they say something rude. Or, they will walk right up to me but won't say anything or even look me in the eye. It seems like a lot of girls lack confidence in talking to guys but they still try anyway? How do you dress and carry yourself? I've spoken about how bland or even ugly guys can look phenomenal with the right clothes, but this can also work the other way for those guys who have nice faces and bodies. If you're out dressed like Mike "The Situation" (be it casual or fancier clubby clothes), then you'll put that "he's a playa" vibe on women. You might then want to tone it down to a more "Gap" look. Attitude and personality are also big. If you want a girlfriend, then you need to portray yourself as the handsome male with a heart that other girls in their insecurity passed up. Show women that you're not looking to sleep around, but want the dating, relationship, etc. It seems like the problem right now is women assume you're a playa, and I'm thinking that's got to come from how you dress and carry yourself. Now if you're just looking to get laid, then I don't know what to tell you. Obviously women are seeing through you.
Author mr_sexxxy Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 I've made a conscious effort to dress down the past few months. If anything, girls are semingly becoming MORE hostile/defensive, rather than less, which perplexes and frustrates me.
grkBoy Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I've made a conscious effort to dress down the past few months. If anything, girls are semingly becoming MORE hostile/defensive, rather than less, which perplexes and frustrates me. I don't think it's you...it's them. I wouldn't be surprised if these are the women who made one too many bad decisions, thus they're blaming you for them because in some way you remind them of those bad exes. I had a divorced woman once who at first liked me, but then couldn't get past the fact I had the same FIRST NAME as her ex...thus she had issues. All I can tell you is keep looking, change up the scenery too. Try finding a woman who didn't make continual bad decisions and thus isn't blaming men for her own life.
rightfield Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 When introducing yourself, say, "...but my friends call me Mr. Dream Merchant." <insert bright sparkle from teeth here>
ShannonMI Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 I've made a conscious effort to dress down the past few months. If anything, girls are semingly becoming MORE hostile/defensive, rather than less, which perplexes and frustrates me. Dude, it's your arrogance and your conceitedness. Girls DON'T DIG IT!! And stop saying that you aren't arrogant or conceited. Your threads are dripping with it. Your user name says you are very full of yourself. Try eating a piece of humble pie. It may do you some good:rolleyes:
Pyro Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 When introducing yourself, say, "...but my friends call me Mr. Dream Merchant." <insert bright sparkle from teeth here> :lmao: OP: the fact that these type of thoughts cross your mind is more than enough proof that you are conceited and most girls can tell.
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