triphopper414 Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 (edited) A while back, I met this guy and we hit it off and there was potential for dating but I was not ready to start dating. We talk here and there and never really make plans to see each other. I do most of the communicating because I do want to be friends with him. I told him that I had a crush on him and he knows that I like him. So this past Friday we were at a club. He put his arm around my waist, held me close to him, we held hands briefly, and he massaged my neck briefly. We also danced. He held me close to him, he smelled my hair, moved it out of my face, touched it. He had his hand on my stomach. We touched foreheads and noses, and brushed our faces up against each others. He did this in public and in front of our mutual friends. To me these are signs of romance. He did tell a friend of his, now a new friend of mine, that he did like me, but how he liked me was not clear. I am confused Edited November 13, 2011 by triphopper414 Make it shorter
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 It's casual flirting. You're a love interest, but he's not necessarily committed to you. As time goes on it might build. It might hold steady. Or it might go away. If you like him I wouldn't flirt with other guys in front of him or anything. Just good etiquette. And keep flirting with him, sounds like fun times.
Author triphopper414 Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 I definitely know that he is not committed to me, but like you said, I feel like a love interest. I am letting him take the lead. I am making it seem like I am not interested, but he knows that I am. I will try to play it cool as I can. I would definitely not flirt with any guys in front of him. A few days ago, he was the center of my attention and I was the center of his. I don't think he even looked at another girl. We don't see each other often and when we do something always happens whether it be good, bad, awkward, etc.
ErgoStep Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Sounds like you want to be together more often. Letting him take the lead is traditional. And if he's a red-blooded American he'll follow up on that one.
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