BigDumbFoot Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I met my ex girlfriend as a college sophomore. She was my first everything. We got together and stayed with each other for almost 7 years, most of those years in college, and about 2 years post graduation. Looking back, I wish that I hadn't jumped into that relationship right away. I wish that I had sewn my wild oats, made more friends, had more sexual relationships. Don't get me wrong, she was a great person for a long time.. But I think maybe we just started seeing each other too early. Now she's gone, most likely do to some G.I.G.S. related stuff.. And I feel completely lost and regretful for not taking advantage of the whole "college experience".. Anyone else feel like it was/is a mistake to have a LTR in college?
futuregopher Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I met my ex girlfriend as a college sophomore. She was my first everything. We got together and stayed with each other for almost 7 years, most of those years in college, and about 2 years post graduation. Looking back, I wish that I hadn't jumped into that relationship right away. I wish that I had sewn my wild oats, made more friends, had more sexual relationships. Don't get me wrong, she was a great person for a long time.. But I think maybe we just started seeing each other too early. Now she's gone, most likely do to some G.I.G.S. related stuff.. And I feel completely lost and regretful for not taking advantage of the whole "college experience".. Anyone else feel like it was/is a mistake to have a LTR in college? No I don't think it was a mistake. I met my ex of 2 years when I was a sophomore and she was a junior. I was happy as can be for my sophomore and junior years but now I'm back to zero my senior year. It's hard to not lose yourself when you love someone so much but that was my mistake; not the relationship. I need to find myself again. Don't blame yourself and just know it wasn't a mistake.
Author BigDumbFoot Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Now it's 2 years out of college and I feel like I barely know who I am/what I'm doing.. I'm sure this will go away after a while, but I still have regrets on some days about the choices I made in the past. But this is probably pretty normal for people in our situation. I'll find myself again someday.
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