MyApologies Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 ~ It has been awhile, and i wrote awhile back about a certain subject and got hammered on a bit, but what was my worry recently came true, exactly as I figured it may. I have been seperated a long time now, and have not had sex for around 2 1/2 years due to being married to a very strange man. Well I have been seeing someone a little while, on and off, more off because of my doing. My question and concern previously was that I study up on subjects, and from various sources came up with the perfect BJ, like outta this world. The concern was when i started dating would it make a man wonder wow wonder where she has been. After awhile me and my guy went a little far one night and i gave him a bj, and he went nuts....and when done and i looked up, he had this look on his face like what was my concern and stated where did you learn that, and had this questioning look on his face. He said it was the most unbelievable bj he has ever had and is like addicted to this now. So I was right at times it can be so good one may wonder, but i did explain that i mixed a combo from several sources and he is like fixated on this now. I know, funny, right?
ShannonMI Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 ~ It has been awhile, and i wrote awhile back about a certain subject and got hammered on a bit, but what was my worry recently came true, exactly as I figured it may. I have been seperated a long time now, and have not had sex for around 2 1/2 years due to being married to a very strange man. Well I have been seeing someone a little while, on and off, more off because of my doing. My question and concern previously was that I study up on subjects, and from various sources came up with the perfect BJ, like outta this world. The concern was when i started dating would it make a man wonder wow wonder where she has been. After awhile me and my guy went a little far one night and i gave him a bj, and he went nuts....and when done and i looked up, he had this look on his face like what was my concern and stated where did you learn that, and had this questioning look on his face. He said it was the most unbelievable bj he has ever had and is like addicted to this now. So I was right at times it can be so good one may wonder, but i did explain that i mixed a combo from several sources and he is like fixated on this now. I know, funny, right? No normal man is going to complain about an amazing blow job. He may wonder where you got the skills, but it's not going to really matter in the end. He's going to be thanking his lucky stars he found a chick who gives good head. He's not going to give a rats @ss how many other men she's sucked off. Don't worry too much.
Author MyApologies Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Lol, I know, but he did exactly as I worried and questioned where I learned that!!! And had this look on his face like maybe I had been around the block. But, you are right it did not matter he was hooked. The technique is awesome and easy, and effective, so better for me:)))) Thanks.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 You really care about making your man happy. I wouldn't mention the research as it makes you sound like a nerd.
Author MyApologies Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 So what, I am a nerd at times. I seriously had to say that, he looked like I did that for a profession! I would love to market it on tape, definitely someone else on tape:) But, the best thing about it for the woman is it does not matter how much a man has learned to hold back at any time in the process, it is up to me when he lets go. This meaning no worries or lockjaw!
Author MyApologies Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 No normal man is going to complain about an amazing blow job. He may wonder where you got the skills, but it's not going to really matter in the end. He's going to be thanking his lucky stars he found a chick who gives good head. He's not going to give a rats @ss how many other men she's sucked off. Don't worry too much. Thanks Shannon, but he did question it and seemed like wow u must have done this a million times. But maybe it is just an isolated incident with this particular guy and another will not make such a big deal about it.
Disenchantedly Yours Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 You really care about making your man happy. I wouldn't mention the research as it makes you sound like a nerd. Really? I would think most guys would be impressed that a girl did her "research" through reading about it instead of actually doing it to avariety of guys.
blueskyday Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Just say what I always say, "I learned it in Cosmopolitan magazine!" This also works for amazing sexual antics you have performed with or learned from ex boyfriends, which you will NEVER EVER admit to... Yes, most guys would be very happy that you are trying to please them sexually. We all know someone who wants to please us makes the best lover! I would caution you on one thing. Sex is awesome, but the way to a man's heart is also emotional. If you can connect with him there, then it will be a home run...Ask about his day. Remember stuff at work and follow up with questions on how the big project, etc. went. Tell him you believe in him. A lot of men end up with women who aren't the best at BJs but are completely into the guy, and are fun, loyal and have their back. I have found that it isn't so much the quality of a BJ, but more the frequency and the enthusiasm for said BJs! Keep 'em coming...
Author MyApologies Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 Great advice! Yes there is enthusiasm when it comes to that, because I do not have the worries of it not ending in the intended results:)))
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