lovelylove Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Been married and divorced, kids are finally grown and out of the house. I'm a professional, healthy, good looking and sexy 49 year old. I don't have any problem finding dates. I've tried internet dating, big fail there. I'm looking for a kind man, successful and happy, in his 50s, who wants a loyal, passionate, healthy, fun, learned, loving wife. I have no idea where to look! I'm shy! I don't drink, or party. I go to work and then come home. I have a few hobbies, I volunteer, I go out hiking and to the beach, but all I've found are men who want short term relationships. My current boyfriend is awesome, but doesn't want to commit.. not just to me, but to anything in his life, he's stuck. I've tried to "change" him, lol. But while it's great it's got to end soon. It's been almost two years with him now. I want a stable, mature, non-bickering relationship. I have a great job and income, love to travel and stay home. Where can I find a man who will commit? I have a lot to offer, and want to find someone who also has a lot to offer.
MyApologies Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Hi! If you find out, please let us know!!!! I am in my 30s, but it seems to be a huge gamble out there. I wish you luck.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 That sort of guy will likely stay with you, but doesn't want to admit it to himself. Two years is a very long time in dating terms. It's a lot of work to find someone, and you have to be willing to look out of state. Which is hardship. Stay with your current man. You might want to slowly build up to co-habitation. Stay the weekend sort of regularly. Then suggest moving in together. Eventually he'll realize that you are basically married anyway, and get the paperwork done.
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