Bohdi10 Posted May 23, 2004 Posted May 23, 2004 I went to the bar a week ago and ran into a girl who I went to high school with. I really didn't know her all that well back then because she was a freshman and I was a senior. She ran track so that was something we had in common. I also found out she is going to school to be a teacher. I am a teacher so I told her she could come observe my class and I got her number. We talked once on the phone and I asked her what she was up to later in the week. I told her to call me later in the week so we could hang out. She called me back later in the week and said that she didn't know what she was doing that night but for me to call her. I called her back but she wasn't there. She returned my phone call late that night but I was asleep because I had given up waiting. So I called her the next day and once again she didn't pick up but I left a message asking her what she was up to that night. She called me back later and said she was with her parents all day. She said that her and some friends only went to get something to eat the night before and really didn't do anything.I asked her what she was up to and she said she didn't know because she hasn't gotten ahold of her friends yet. I told her to call me later once she figured plans out. She never called back. I really would like to pursue things with this girl but I don't know how to go about doing it. I'm kinda confused with the whole situation and am really bad a playing the whole dating game. I figured since she actually is calling me back all these times that she is interested? What should my next move be?
moimeme Posted May 23, 2004 Posted May 23, 2004 She calls you back to let you know that she'd rather spend time with her friends than with you. I think this one's a lost cause.
bluechocolate Posted May 23, 2004 Posted May 23, 2004 You could try being more direct. Like asking her out rather than asking her what she's up to. Just maybe she's not clued up enough to realise that you asking her what she's doing is the same as asking her on a date, but somehow I doubt it. If she was interested in you her friends could have waited for another evening out.
Author Bohdi10 Posted May 23, 2004 Author Posted May 23, 2004 She did just get home from college, so she wouldn't have seen her friends all that much until now. She may be locked in the middle of I just started talking to him and I really want to see my friends?
bluechocolate Posted May 23, 2004 Posted May 23, 2004 Originally posted by Bohdi10 She may be locked in the middle of I just started talking to him and I really want to see my friends? Yes, that could be it too. The only way you're going to know is to ask her out directly & then take it from there.
Curt Posted May 23, 2004 Moderators Posted May 23, 2004 I Know it hurts when affection doesn't go both ways, believe me. Nonetheless, I would suggest you cut your losses and move on. Nothing left there for you to pursue ... drive on. Curt
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