chados Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I have to say, im a strong person, well at least i think so. but when this happened i crashed. ive never felt so alone in my life. my gf broke up with me a few weeks ago. I went NC for 2 weeks, i started to feel better every day. and then she texted me. how are you? what are you doing and so on.. i answered maybe 3 sms and then said , hey i gotta go to the gym, we can talk another day. i texted her 2 days after. she was very fast to answer me, took her about 1 minute/sms. And then i said, i gotta go now, talk to you later. and it took her 15 minutes to answer that?. i haven't talked to her since wednesday i think. and i've also noticed that she's kinda hiding from me. it looks like she dosen't want me to see that she's online on facebook. i know her really well. and she has never done this. she's offline on the chat, but still writes to her friends. my sisters friend said, when a girl hides from you after a breakup, its probably because she's still in love with you. what do you think? would be great to get a female perspective on this. english is my second language, hopefully your'e able to understand everything
Forever Learning Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Don't even waste time trying to figure out whether or not she is still in love with you from little signs such as how she acts on Facebook now. It's just a waste of time to try to speculate on little things like the time it takes to return a text message, or why she operates incognito on Facebook now. What you need to figure out is why the relationship ended, and if it is worth your time to contact her and try to work it out or not. That's all you need to focus on and figure out. Good luck either way.
Author chados Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Don't even waste time trying to figure out whether or not she is still in love with you from little signs such as how she acts on Facebook now. It's just a waste of time to try to speculate on little things like the time it takes to return a text message, or why she operates incognito on Facebook now. What you need to figure out is why the relationship ended, and if it is worth your time to contact her and try to work it out or not. That's all you need to focus on and figure out. Good luck either way. i know its stupid, i know why it ended, and we talked about it. thing is i acted to needy after that, i kinda blew it bigtime just because my fear of loss. i absolutely think there's a chance to get back together. should i wait for her to take contact? thanks
Forever Learning Posted November 15, 2011 Posted November 15, 2011 i know its stupid, i know why it ended, and we talked about it. thing is i acted to needy after that, i kinda blew it bigtime just because my fear of loss. i absolutely think there's a chance to get back together. should i wait for her to take contact? thanks Life is short my friend. Don't wait. Go for it, whatever it is you want in life. Don't listen to all the wacky advice people give about playing hard to get or other evasive head games. Be forthright, honest and straightforward. Go get your girl. Good luck.
Author chados Posted November 15, 2011 Author Posted November 15, 2011 Life is short my friend. Don't wait. Go for it, whatever it is you want in life. Don't listen to all the wacky advice people give about playing hard to get or other evasive head games. Be forthright, honest and straightforward. Go get your girl. Good luck. guess your right, thanks:)
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