that dude Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago. Last weekend I spent the night with another girl who is kind of friends with her (not close friends). We didn't have sex but we made out and cuddled all night. I thought this would help me get over my ex but it didn't. My ex and I agreed to try again after waiting a bit longer. Should I tell her about this now to see if it changes anything?. I'd rather her find out now from me than from someone else in the future, but at the same time I don't think I did anything wrong because we weren't together at the time.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 You're in a bad situation. You're looking for the least wrong choice. Leaving the ex for good is the best choice. Waiting for her, assuming she will find out from friends(enemies). I'm betting this is what you're going to end up doing. All the while you're feeling uncomfortable. Tell her. Awkward. She gets mad, or she hugs you for comfort. I don't see the latter happening in this situation. Some people would make a case for honesty and openness. I'm looking at an explosive situation and wondering about damage control.
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