ChipsnSalsa Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Ok, here is the deal. I am a single guy who starting chatting with a girl on Facebook. This has been going on for about a month. At any rate, we have never spoken on the phone, but the conversations WERE really good. I was not forward in a sexual manner (wanted to be respectful) and we seemed to hit it off. Recently I made a joke that she was spying on me (inside joke) and that she would make a bad spy. At any rate, she has completely stopped talking (emailing me back). I went from being wonderful, sweet, awesome to zilch now. I did tell her that she was one of the most caring souls I have ever met (very considerate with her charity work). What in the world is going on here? Any ideas. A side note, I am supposed to join her and some friends for an event next month. Plus, I have a few girls on FB that I am JUST FRIENDS with that have tagged me when I am out with them. Is she jealous, playing hard to get, mad at my comment, wanted me to ask her for her phone number, found someone else..... Please Help... I am confused
verhrzn Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Maybe she was interested, but after a month of chatting without you asking her out in any way (phone number, coffee date) she gave you up as a bad cause and has moved on, especially if there are pictures of you tagged with other girls. (Lemme guess... just friends, but you have your arm around them somehow?)
Author ChipsnSalsa Posted November 12, 2011 Author Posted November 12, 2011 Maybe she was interested, but after a month of chatting without you asking her out in any way (phone number, coffee date) she gave you up as a bad cause and has moved on, especially if there are pictures of you tagged with other girls. (Lemme guess... just friends, but you have your arm around them somehow?) Well, I am supposed to do a charity event with her next month, so I am going to see her. She lives a few hours away, and I didn't feel like making her feel uncomfortable by asking for her phone number. I wasn't tagged in pictures, just that I was hanging out with them.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 A side note, I am supposed to join her and some friends for an event next month. Plus, I have a few girls on FB that I am JUST FRIENDS with that have tagged me when I am out with them. Is she jealous, playing hard to get, mad at my comment, wanted me to ask her for her phone number, found someone else..... Please Help... I am confused Dating is a game. Women have more guys hitting on them than you can imagine. Usually with these flirty friendships, it builds and builds, then it dies. If she doesn't check in with you before the event, I'd consider not even bothering to go. A date is the two of you, an event is a bunch of people. If you're wanting to have a dating life, flirt with more women. Try to build up to a relationship. Along the way, you will get her phone number. You will have dinner with her. You will kiss her. You might have sex. These are all signs of romantic interest. Also. Charity work is overrated.
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