fetish1980 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Okay, in the last week, i've been dated a couple of women who have all said similar things. They said, they respect men who can admit that they want sex rather than try to b/s them. It exudes confidence when they have enough guts to admit to them what they really want. One said, "We already know what men want, but just be real, we're adults, just don't try to manipulate us like buying us many drinks and etc. Now, women can say this, but what would a woman really think if a guy just up and said, " I want sex!" From my experience, women get turned off from guys who just act like they want sex. They want to be made to feel special and romanticized. I think that's a catch 22, if you admit you want sex, you're a dogg, but if you try to act like that's not the number one thing on the list (even if it is), you're a bullsh%%ter. Now me, i don't know how to tell a woman that i want sex like that without getting to know them first. I'm not that bold. But is that really what women want to hear? need some input, especially from the ladies. fetish
wilsonx Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Not every girl wants to be dated and romanticized. There are girls out there that just want sex... They have physical needs too... Never buy a girl a drink... never never never never never never never unless shes a friend. If she asks you to buy her a drink tell her sorry, "i am a full supporter of equal rights between men and women, I believe its your turn to buy me a drink" If shes just looking for guys to buy you a drink she will probably say piss off and you saved yourself 10 bucks, if shes really interested in you she will spend 10 dollars and buy you a drink, thats the keeper. Exude confidence. Figure out what you want, then go out there and find a woman that wants the same thing as what you want
EgoJoe Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 I will only ever buy a girlfriend or a friend a drink that they want. I did once buy a random girl a drink but it was a double of stolichnaya (she had been drinking some fufu sheiza) and then she looked at me funny and I said. You looked like you could use something strong enough to knock you off of your pedestal. I had my way with her in the back seat of her friends car. That was a one time thing I'd never repeat. But, never buy them the drink that they want. Go out and plan on having a good time for yourself. Also, as far as the original topic goes. Women don't have a clue what they want either so don't feel too bad.
Author fetish1980 Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 oh i haven't bought them drinks... believe me. she was just using that as an example. fetish
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