lilyblue Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Hi, My ex and I had been friends for 3 years, dated for a month and then he completely vanished (later discovered he was back with his ex-wife) and until Tuesday we hadn't talked for 6 weeks (when he vanished). We were both out for drinks with a mutual friend Tuesday. It took every ounce of confidence I had to not isolate myself socially and actually attend since I knew he was going to be there. He looked incredibly guilty seeing me and whispered a "sorry" as he hugged me goodbye. I really miss him. Tomorrow is my birthday and I know about 24 hours from now I will be very sad that I didn't hear from him. Trying to prepare myself for it but also can't help but wonder if I will. I hate that I want him back, but I really have never been so happy as when I was with him. I feel like I don't connect with people often and it was so cruely taken away with the cowardly vanishing act.
Author lilyblue Posted November 12, 2011 Author Posted November 12, 2011 I can't stop thinking of him
stunned8165 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Sorry your bummed. My ex and I broke up at the end of may. Her B day was July 5th. I sent a nice card and and a happy b day text. All she worried about was how I found out where she lived. Like I was a murderer or something and all I did was love her and her children. But the kids b days are aug 12 & 29th. Mine is Aug 10th. I sent the kids cards with Toys r us gift certificates and for my B day I didn't even get a text. I did NOTHING to deserve being betrayed, lied to and cheated on... [sIZE=3] I dated her for three years. The kids have no dad in their lives. I am the only Dad they know. I raised them for three years like they were my own, my family adopted them in as if she was my wife and those were my children, I paid the bills when we decided to live together in my home, great area, grade a schools, did 90% of the laundry, took care of the cars, yard, helped cleaned the house and even taught the 5 year old girl how to write her name before kindergarten. The children were from two different fathers. She's 38 years old and I was good to her. I wasn't an ******* either. Treated her right. But what does she do?.. She cheats on me with her boss. Leaves me for him. A real creep to because he does this to all the girls that work for him.. Nice huh? Is the grass always greener on the other side?... Well, you and I both know how that will turn out. . And I'm the one that doesn't even get a B Day wish. [/sIZE]
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