Kage111 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 So I met this girl at a club a few months ago, I bought her a drink, we talked, exchanged Facebook info, and then I went home. What a charmer I am. Hah. For some reason, she was really into me. I don't get it, I'm very average-looking and she was a fairly attractive girl. Immediately she messages me on Facebook saying how she wished we had gone to get something to eat after. I told her I had to take my friend home and we should hang out again sometime. The next day we talk a lot on Facebook. She tells me how "hot" she thought I was, I just respond with a "the feeling's mutual" and pretty soon she gives me her number, but says she is going back to college... on the other side of the country! I am very against long-distance relationships, especially with a girl I just met, so I start cooling it down. We text a bit, but I slowly take longer and longer to reply. She finally asks to video chat with me... and I just don't respond. I'm a jerk and a coward, I know... So it kinda ends, I started seeing another girl I had been trying to ask out for almost a year, but the club girl still messaged me randomly sometimes with a "Hey how are you?" All unreplied to... The girl I was been seeing and I got into a fight and we ended things... sort of... she wants to be "good friends" which I am more against than long-distance dating... And wouldn't you know it, less than a week after we call it quits, the girl from the club messages me saying how she's coming home for winter and wants to get together! I know this sounds really messed up, but I told her I'd like to hang out. I really wouldn't mind, I could use someone right now... and she is smart, attractive, and incredibly into me. I mean really, she still wants to hang out after I ignored her for a few months... it's just, I know she's going back across the country for grad school, and then she'll probably get a job over there... I'm not the kind of guy who dates just for fun, I do it because I want there to be a future... but would it be good for me to just go out with her anyway?
dizy Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 hum.... run before it's too late. how desperate is this woman? keep texting a person that she didnt see since months and on top on that who doesnt reply to her msg?
Trovador Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 It will hurt more down in the road... I'd tell her if I were you... And slightly off topic, I once interacted with a girl so I could forget easier a former gf, boy, my problem duplicated because I had then two girls to forget...
bardo Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 personally, ive been in a situation with a guy like this before. we knew he was leaving before it started, but we both went with it, just gave it everything and denied it was ever gonna end. when it did, it was the best ''breakup'' ive ever had, and we remained like best friends. he travels alot, and theres a good chance i'll see him again... so i mean, why cut your bridges before its even had a chance? i honestly hate it when guys do that... life is too short not to try things just because you think it wont work. thats my opinion
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