woman2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Thanks for reading my story...need some opinions. I was dating a man for about a year but as of a month ago, we've been on a "break" by his doing. We're both in our 30s, mature, no children and really enjoyed each others' company. We live 4 hour drive from each other but we managed to see each other for extended weekends a few times a month. My ex is quiet, reserved, mature, professional and a self-described introvert. I didn't mind this at all since I'm a bit of a home-body too. However, he was not very communicative and often I'd have to initiated discussions about our relationship and where we were headed. I texted him one evening saying I wanted a baby, a family with him, and wanted him to move to my city so we can start a life together (instead of doing the long distance thing). He responded via text that he wasn't ready). We spoke immediately thereafter on the phone and he said he does want a family, kids but he's parents had bad relationship and essentially he was scared. He said he's messed up and doesn't know what he wants. I told him I didn't want to waste my time as I'm in my late 30s and he said let's take a break. I texted him the other day (1 month post break up) and he responded quickly. I asked if I could call him and he said sure. I asked if he wanted to get together next month for dinner and he said ok. This is all via text. I will be calling him soon and I don't know what to say and what this all means. I want him back in my life but I don't know if he still wants me and what he's agreeing to see me really means. I've been doing all the initiating post break up so I know this isn't a good thing. Help! please and thank you.
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