Maria32 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 So I’m with my daughter today at the mall getting a bite to eat and the way the restaurant is set up you can see the people walking back and forth through the mall. My daughter says mom there is my ex’s son (she said his name). So she spoke to him and I spoke as well. My ex didn’t see me so his son said something to him. He turned around and waved, but I just looked at him and put my head down and continued eating. I kind of feel bad like I should have spoke, but I’m still really hurt right now. We broke up in July, but we’ve been back and forth arguing etc. and I seen him with another woman about two weeks ago. It’s been one week of NC and I really hate that I seen him today because it brought back all the feeling again. Was I wrong for not speaking?
ChelseaLS Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Do you want him back? If not, then why must you speak to him?... You don't owe him anything.
perfectlyflawed459 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 So I’m with my daughter today at the mall getting a bite to eat and the way the restaurant is set up you can see the people walking back and forth through the mall. My daughter says mom there is my ex’s son (she said his name). So she spoke to him and I spoke as well. My ex didn’t see me so his son said something to him. He turned around and waved, but I just looked at him and put my head down and continued eating. I kind of feel bad like I should have spoke, but I’m still really hurt right now. We broke up in July, but we’ve been back and forth arguing etc. and I seen him with another woman about two weeks ago. It’s been one week of NC and I really hate that I seen him today because it brought back all the feeling again. Was I wrong for not speaking? I don't think you were wrong. I mean it is hard to pretend everything is okay if you are still hurt and such. Give yourself enough time to heal, then maybe you can talk to him again. I would even wait till he reaches out to you first, but even at that it all depends if you are ready to talk to him and such. Like my ex tried to approach me and talk to me the other day and ask my opinion on some stuff, but I gave him a very short answer and then left. Even though he tried to talk to me, I knew I wasn't ready to face him still and it has been only 6 weeks NC. I know he is with another girl right now and he ditched her to come talk to me. It is hard because I miss him, but it is about time he waits for me to make the calls. Why should they have all the power?! haha
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