chelle21689 Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Here’s an example for me. I think my boyfriend has a good personality overall. I like the way he moves, sounds, and he makes me laugh a lot. We mesh pretty well together. He is active and adventurous which I like a lot because he pushes me off my lazy butt to do more things I’ve always wanted to do. He’s also so considerate and unselfish. Also very sweet and affectionate. Even though I like who he is, I hate to admit I think I like his looks more than his personality. I find him very good looking. He has flaws like crooked teeth, not the smoothest skin with some acne scars, he’s only 5’9, he’s pretty thin with some muscular build, he doesn’t have a big **** but I think I find him handsome. He has a nice square jaw, nice smile, cute little nose, and I love his dark eyebrows LOL they’re like really thick but neat and frame his soft brown eyes very nicely. When he doesn’t gel his hair and grows out his facial hair I find him “kinda cute” in a hobo way hahaha but when he shaves and does his hair he’s like a perfect 10 to me. With my ex, I thought he was kinda cute but I liked his personality a bit more. Well we argued a whole lot but I liked him for his "different" thinking.. maybe a little too different since we argued a lot lol
Nexus One Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I don't think it's bad, but crushing on both looks AND personality would be ideal. As personality remains once looks fade over time.
USMCHokie Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I'll only accept both...wasn't always the case in my past, and I've always ended up unhappy...
Author chelle21689 Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 I'm talking about my case. I didn't say you don't like their personality. I'm asking what if you like their personality and looks but you think their looks are a bit better than their personality? LOL
USMCHokie Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I'm talking about my case. I didn't say you don't like their personality. I'm asking what if you like their personality and looks but you think their looks are a bit better than their personality? LOL Looks get you into the door and personality keeps you in the house. If you find his personality lacking, then you'll more likely than not grow tired of him later on and find reasons to leave. Looks are definitely not a good reason to stay, as it suggests you value external validation when people see you with your dude. I honestly don't understand your question...he's good looking, and you don't hate his personality...? Is he THAT attractive...? Or are you trying to find the ideal guy who is smoking hot and has an amazing personality...? You'd better be able to offer the same if you expect it for yourself...
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