Romantic_Lefty Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Hey its Lefty again, I haven't been on in a loong time but im hoping to receive some good advice again! To recap my older posts and story are in the break ups reconcilaition section. And to bring things up to speed, i am back with the love of my life, after a very emotional visit from her earlier in the school year and many many apologies. The one thing though is that we are in a secret relationship. nobody really knows about it so as not to leak it to her mother whom she still does not want to upset. Which was fine with me, small potatoes compared to having her in my life again, even if it is awkward at times and secretive. But lately its seemed like, she is disinterested or something. I know shes busy (pre-pharmacy with an interview coming up) and under our situation we don't get to talk or hang out a whole lot, but its like when she has the chance to now she won't talk or hang out. Like the other day before she left back for home she wanted to come over which was amazing cuz nobody else was at my apartment and we could actually have some quality time together! but about fifteen min after she arrived, she said she had stuff she had to get back home and needed to go. Big deal or no!? and then she said she would text me so i knew she got back safely (not the best driver and not afraid to admit it) yet i didn't get a text from her till four hours after she should have been home and all i get was "i got busy". I can understand if you are busy, but as far as i know she had nothing to do and thats why she went home, and i was only upset because i was worried about her. I don't think taking ten seconds out of your day to say i'm home was a big deal especially after you say that you would! but...am i just overthinking all of this because its hard to have a secret relationship or something along those lines? any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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