PhillyDude Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I went on one date with this girl and after the date we had planned to see each other again in 2 weeks. I sent her a text about a week ago asking how she is doing and her response was...."someone broke into my apartment" So I was like OMG so sorry to hear that hopefully not a lot was stolen. her response-"I'm ok for now" Then I sent her a text last saturday asking how she was coming along her response-"i'm ok I'm at a wedding" Then I sent her a text with me smiling that said-just saying hi and hope you are ok her response-"Aww thanks honey, I haven't forgotten about you life just got the best of me lately So is this her creative way of getting not taking things further? I mean I figured she was so messed up from the robbery but since then she has went to a wedding and we have not talked on the phone at all since 10/31/11. So I guess I should take the hint?
RiverRunning Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 It's hard to say. It's what (the 11th)? So it's been almost two weeks. My suggestion would be to ask her out on another date, letting her know you'd like to give her a chance to relax. Maybe plan a low-key activity and see how she responds to it. If after that you get "life is busy" or no response at all, consider it your answer.
zengirl Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 She could be sincere. It's only 2 weeks and people do get busy. However, she's not THAT into you if that's her response level. Doesn't mean she's not into you at all, but you're not wowing her for sure. Still, sometimes things do grow, so if you're interested, I'd attempt to set a date (an actual date, not a chat) and see if she is interested in setting that up (says yes or if she can't, says no but suggests a new concrete date).
Author PhillyDude Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 well atleast I have something to use in the future when I don't want to see a girl anymore lol Someone just broke in my damm apartment and stole everything
Author PhillyDude Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Well I got my answer Saw her online this morning on plentyoffish and that oretty much confirms that she has no interest. Only thing I'm confused about is after the 1st date we talked that night she texted me good morning every day agreed to a second date with me coming to her part of town
eweezzee Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 I went on one date with this girl and after the date we had planned to see each other again in 2 weeks. I sent her a text about a week ago asking how she is doing and her response was...."someone broke into my apartment" So I was like OMG so sorry to hear that hopefully not a lot was stolen. her response-"I'm ok for now" Then I sent her a text last saturday asking how she was coming along her response-"i'm ok I'm at a wedding" Then I sent her a text with me smiling that said-just saying hi and hope you are ok her response-"Aww thanks honey, I haven't forgotten about you life just got the best of me lately So is this her creative way of getting not taking things further? I mean I figured she was so messed up from the robbery but since then she has went to a wedding and we have not talked on the phone at all since 10/31/11. So I guess I should take the hint? yea its a wrap, doesnt mean shes lying about anything shes said. you just cant have a connection with someone you dont talk to or see. Id send a courtousy final text saying to text you once things clear up if shes still interested because you want to still hangout. She will text you if she REALLY wants to see you again, Good Luck
Author PhillyDude Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 yea its a wrap, doesnt mean shes lying about anything shes said. you just cant have a connection with someone you dont talk to or see. Id send a courtousy final text saying to text you once things clear up if shes still interested because you want to still hangout. She will text you if she REALLY wants to see you again, Good Luck It was already confirmed she is not interested since i saw her online on POF this morning.
eweezzee Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 Well I got my answer Saw her online this morning on plentyoffish and that oretty much confirms that she has no interest. Only thing I'm confused about is after the 1st date we talked that night she texted me good morning every day agreed to a second date with me coming to her part of town Give her the benifit of the doubt, does she still text you good morning everyday? Even if you saw her on there she could just be checking messages. I did the same mistake as you once and i bitched the girl out for it lol turns out she really just didnt have time to see me with school and work and i felt stupid. With that said you should still be trying to set up other dates which im sure you are.
ErgoStep Posted November 13, 2011 Posted November 13, 2011 It was already confirmed she is not interested since i saw her online on POF this morning. Dude, she's dating around. You should be dating around. The ideal situation is to have a few love interests. If your first choice doesn't work out for Friday night, text another chick and you've still got a date. Eventually you'll click with someone and then you're "going steady" and then you're "together" in which case she'll want you to ditch your other cute friends.
Author PhillyDude Posted November 13, 2011 Author Posted November 13, 2011 Dude, she's dating around. You should be dating around. The ideal situation is to have a few love interests. If your first choice doesn't work out for Friday night, text another chick and you've still got a date. Eventually you'll click with someone and then you're "going steady" and then you're "together" in which case she'll want you to ditch your other cute friends. I was trying to do that but a couple of fell through. The only girls I'm talking to now are PLAY MATERIAL not DATING MATERIAL. Anyone under 27 or average looking is play material.
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