trueluV Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 okay i just want to know what a guy is thinking when he wants to see the girl everyday? so, i met a guy about 5 weeks ago and broke it off after seeing him 6 times, because i thought he was playing/playing mind games with me. (though we did not sleep together). i literally walked out on him, and made it clear i am not the "easy girl" he was thinking of, and i am not interested in just "being friends". he seemed shocked when i walked out. after a few days, he contacted me again and told me he needs more time to be in a relationship but wants to keep seeing me again. it went on about 2 weeks, and i told him i will only see him if he will be open and honest with me. so we met up, and things looked good. since that day, he wants to see me everyday, but we don't do anything physical, not even a kiss or holding hands. i don't know if he is putting off the physical part to show respect to me or is losing interest and sees me as a friend. but he wouldn't keep asking to see me everyday if he were losing interest in me. can i get feedback from guys? thank you!
Pierre Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 okay i just want to know what a guy is thinking when he wants to see the girl everyday? so, i met a guy about 5 weeks ago and broke it off after seeing him 6 times, because i thought he was playing/playing mind games with me. (though we did not sleep together). i literally walked out on him, and made it clear i am not the "easy girl" he was thinking of, and i am not interested in just "being friends". he seemed shocked when i walked out. after a few days, he contacted me again and told me he needs more time to be in a relationship but wants to keep seeing me again. it went on about 2 weeks, and i told him i will only see him if he will be open and honest with me. so we met up, and things looked good. since that day, he wants to see me everyday, but we don't do anything physical, not even a kiss or holding hands. i don't know if he is putting off the physical part to show respect to me or is losing interest and sees me as a friend. but he wouldn't keep asking to see me everyday if he were losing interest in me. can i get feedback from guys? thank you! If I am in love or falling in love daily contact is very nice. Just hearing the voice or having a visual is very nice.
Pierre Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 (edited) Was he pushing for sex after 6 times you seen him? If not, why would he look at you as "easy"? if you did not spread your legs after 6 dates?....why would he want to be just friends with you? Did he say anything to that part? You "walked out!" and "he was shocked" did it feel good acting like a bitch?...did you feel more power for you insecure, weak self? He should WALK OUT ON YOU! Guy seems like a doormat loser... I disagree. If the guy wants a relationship daily contact with no intercourse is more than enough. If the guy just wants sex and nothing else he will lose interest very quickly once there is no easy sex. Women are not supposed to have sex whenever a man wants it or after a predetermined number of dates. Women have sex WHEN THEY WANT SEX . Edited November 11, 2011 by Pierre
Author trueluV Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 no,,,this thread is not really about sex, as this is out of the question at this point. maybe showing more affection such as kiss, is what is missing, even though he wants to see me everyday, with daily contact, so i was wondering. pierre, i'm sure you remember my thread he wanted to sleep with me first and then played tricks on me to get me somehow (by giving distance later), and that's the reason why i walked out on him. now, he's back in the picture and he did tell me if he's "serious" about a girl, he would hold back sex for at least 3 months. so i don't know how to look at this, but maybe i should take it as a green light for now since we've been seeing almost everyday since my last "walk out", and there is no sex whatsoever. but i would like a kiss
Author trueluV Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 i meant, "sex" wasn't my point here as it is out of the picture for me at this point. but maybe it is related to sex. thanks for your feedback!
Pierre Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 i meant, "sex" wasn't my point here as it is out of the picture for me at this point. but maybe it is related to sex. thanks for your feedback! OK, now I remember your posts about being "played". This guy is a player and this is a game for him. However, sometimes players fall hard for a specific girl. Particularly if she is not susceptible to his smoothness and is not an easy lay. I would still be very careful here. You continue to be susceptible to this individual. Keep your guard up. He is playing the same game. He wants you to be the one that initiates the sex. He is having a great time playing with you and at the same time is building the tension to have sex with you. The anticipation and tension can be a lot of fun. Only God knows what will happen once he gets you in bed. As long as that answer is not clear do nothing.
Author trueluV Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Only God knows what will happen once he gets you in bed. As long as that answer is not clear do nothing. thanks for your comment, pierre! i'm totally with you, yes, who knows once he "gets" me...we never know. i will be very careful and do nothing. thanks!
Pierre Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 thanks for your comment, pierre! i'm totally with you, yes, who knows once he "gets" me...we never know. i will be very careful and do nothing. thanks! Ideally you should have a HUGE emotional connection and total trust in him before doing anything. There is nothing wrong with delaying sex. I have known couples that stop having sex for many months before their wedding date just to make it special and meaningful.
Pierre Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 " I have known couples that stop having sex for many months before their wedding date just to make it special and meaningful." - You must know a lot of retards...do you live with your mom? Where you talking about your dad and your mother? We need troll spray!!!!!!!! :laugh::laugh::laugh: Dudette: You have no clue about how to be a troll.:D
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