MrSimple Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 She seems to be wanting to talk about the breakup, since she msged me saying: "I owe you a sorry" How should I respond to this? Should I reply back: "For?" and see what she says, or is there another way to ask what the sorry is for? Please advise!
silly_panda Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Sorry that I don't know your story... Are you currently in NC..? If so, how long has it been and how long was it since you had broken up..? What your ex said is too general and could be breadcrumbs...
Author MrSimple Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Today will be 2 weeks into NC, and we broke up for 5 weeks alr. (Possibly going to be a turning point for her rebound soon, or maybe next week) She broke it a couple of times, asking if I was going for this coming event over the wkend and whether I'll be taking part in it. She tried to make me drop everything and accompany her for the event, but it didn't really work. So she's trying a different approach now by taking part in the event and "accidentally" bump into me. How I see it is that if I can't be talked out of it, then she will just take part and be one of those involved in it, making things less awakard? To be saying sorry now, it could possibly mean things are not going well for her, and she's looking for a familiar face. Then again, I've no idea what happened, but it looks like it's definitely not good for her. This could be all a ploy to test me, who knows? But if she is bend on seeing me this wkend, will it be safe to assume something is up to my favor?
silly_panda Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Well... No one really knows what is she thinking... But I think you know her better than anyone of us here... You mean that she is already in a relationship rite now..? There are a few reasons for her saying sorry for you... 1 - you are rite, her relationship is not working well, she misses you 2 - she wanna keep you as a safety net/to see if you are still at her reach 3 - she wanna ease her guilt 4 - she wanna be friends with you Whatever it is, think of what's best for you and what do you really wan... The power is in your hands... Good luck...
Author MrSimple Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 We'll see how tmr turns out to be, the signs she will show if we were to meet. From there I'll have a pretty sure idea what I should do next~ Thanks!
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