t_i Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Hello everyone ! Basically - I came a few months ago in August with the issue that me and my boyfriend of 2 years had split. Good news is - Its now like a new relationship, we got back together and the old jealousy, paranoia just... melted away. I'm not jealous at all anymore, we both trust eachother, neither of us feel the need to seach eachothers phones etc. We get on, we do things in our free time etc. Its nice:) ONE ISSUE: He works 9-5. I'm at uni but in the evening i work 5-8. I get back at 9 and during the week I stay at his. When I get to his all we do is just go straight to bed and cuddle. He wakes up at 8 and drops me up the road at 8.30. Then goes to work. I see him most weeknights doing this. On the weekends we do nice things like go to the zoo, go shopping, visit neighbouring towns shopping etc. However, is this us seeing too much of eachother? I've asked him if there are any issues, and he says no and he likes how we're going and there being no drama, he thinks we're doing really well. But... we've stopped having as much sex. We used to have sex alot, and now we mainly just have sex on weekends and during the week hes tired and i'm tired. I've only really just noticed this, but he says hes really tired and he works and i come over at around 10 and he just needs to go to bed because of work. Sooo.... Everythings going well but theres not much sex, and theres a possiblity that we're seeing eachother too much. How do I spice this up? We're only 21 so I think this is a little... odd. How much should we be seeing eachother? (also no 'oh your too young' unconstructive comments, please )
lostcharm Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Toys, lingerie, new positions, new locations. Try giving him a little striptease if he's tired or a lap dance. At least he can sit back and enjoy those.
Author t_i Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Toys, lingerie, new positions, new locations. Try giving him a little striptease if he's tired or a lap dance. At least he can sit back and enjoy those. Heres the thing.... I have alot of different types of lingerie - corsets, babydolls, and I have drawers full of matching sets... He likes them for about 2 mins but I dont really think he sees the point in them. I have sex toys and tried them other than the 'stranger' toys. I guess we could try different positions more and new locations, but I'm not quite sure where! I havent really tried anything too extreme other than that, I have a nurses outfit and could try abit of roleplay but I'm not quite sure if he'd just laugh! I asked about the strip tease before because we went to a strip club (long story!) and he said its abit 'slutty' and he didnt think he'd like me doing it? Like Hmm!
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