bardo Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 So, I met this guy about a month ago. we get along really well, and usually play-fight a fair bit, and joke around. at times he's really full on touchy-feely, and physical... and makes ''inappropiate'' comments about wanting to have sex with me just out of no where. ( im 20, he's 27), but his whole personality is a bit blunt. then other times he seems like a really nice guy, and asks about my life, and talks about real things, remembers what i tell him, (and mentioned he didnt like fake people). and holds my hand when watching dvds. he even joked about us being married later in life. sometimes he texts me alot with long messages, and replies straight away, othertimes i wont hear from him all week. but he does work long hours. last time i saw him, he was resting his head on my lap with his eyes closed, and told me he didnt want me to leave. then as soon as i walked out the door, he just held onto me from behind and started getting kinky - thats how sudden it is. i dont tend to show my emotions directly, and we play pretend mean, so i could see maybe he's also confused with me. but i dont know what he wants! ( i havent done anything more than making out with him yet ) im afraid to show too much emotion incase it comes across as clingy. His roomate / best friend, has a longterm gf who is always around. and i hear guys are influenced a lot by their friends. but i want a relationship with him, what do i do ?
lostcharm Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Tell him how you feel. You won't get into a relationship if you can't be upfront with him. Just tell him youre confused about where you two stand at the moment.
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