ziggue Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 My ex boyfriend and I had really great chemistry and got along really well. Even one of our mutual friends said she thought things were going great with him and I at the start. He ends up ending it with me because he had little time for me because of work and study. At times he would cancel on me as well and I was getting a little frustrated because I was not seeing him as much as I would like. We had a talk about it and I tried to talk him around seeing me at least one day a week and he still could not promise me that. I did not think I was asking for to much and did not have to see him everyday. I had my own friends and life as well. I could have lived with that. Still. He was pretty skeptical because I did sound a little bit upset in some of my texts I sent him when he cancelled. Wish I had not initiated texts as much. Maybe that might have made a difference and keep thinking if I had just backed off things might have been different. I was then just willing to go with the flow again and then he tells me he is not ready for something serious either. He had gotten out of a serious 'sh*tty relationship' he called it last year and was not in the right frame of mind to start something new. He said he still would like to remain friends though. He admitted to still liking me and gave me a compliment on my new hair cut and even went on about catching up again. It has now been a month and a half since we broke up. I have not heard from him at all. I did no contact but did cave a few times and sent like 3 texts over that period of time. Every couple of weeks. The last one was very short and was only one sentence. This was after I had deleted him off Facebook. I replied back to it and got no response. Got really annoyed by the fact he did not seem to want anything to do with me and ended up deleting his number. Realising he reacted this way with the last two as well. But when I wished him Happy Birthday on the one before hand. He did tell me to have fun in Queensland. Remembering I was going away that weekend. He was less friendlier in the last one and that kind of hurt. Backing off now though. Hence deleting the numbers and stuff. Just do not understand why he is being so cold to me when he was the one that dumped me and wanted to be friends in the first place.
Haruka Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Maybe he feels by distancing himself from you, that he is being serious of the break up. I know it's hard, I have been there and currently still trying not to communicate with my (ex)boyfriend. Be strong girl, go have fun in QLD. Enjoy being free for this time hun Its going to be hard and you will be thinking of him. Just remember your in the fun capital of Australia. Perhaps you might hit it off on a holiday romance.
Author ziggue Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 The Queensland trip has come and gone and was fun. A girl's weekend away was exactly what I needed. Sent that last message a week after I got back from the trip. Ugh. Back home in Sydney and keeping myself busy with friends and the Gym in the mean time. Not much else I can do about it. Any more advice will be appreciated! It sux I still have feelings for him. .
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