Haruka Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Hi guys. My partner and I had a fight over something stupid. It was because I wouldn't have sex with him this particular morning. Which blew up to more of "You don't attempt to be sexy, all you do is sleep" and "If only you would..." by the end of it. He said "I'm sick of this. I don't want to see you anymore we are now over." His parents were over for the weekend so yeah they heard most of it. So I have moved back to my parents house for the time being. This was a week ago. I have tried not to communicate with him, however I had to call him over a business matter. He came over, I was hoping we would chat. However he focused mainly on my sister's baby and would barely look at me. We went out for lunch to discuss the business matter and he still wouldn't look at me, he wore his sunglasses on indoors and focused on reading the paper. When we talked it was trivial stuff not personal. After he dropped me off, told me he was busy tomorrow and that was it. He barely talked to me or look at me. It felt like he was embarrassed by what he did. I tried to talk and act in a normal fashion. Not pushing anything. Do you guys think he was? Or was he annoyed to see me and what to get things over with.
YaOldBuckaroo Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Hi Haruka I think he wanted to get the meeting as soon as possible because he was embarrassed. Men do have a biological need for sex, but you not wanting to get it on with him just one time isn't enough to justify him blowing things out of proportion, and ultimately deciding to breakup. I'd be embarrassed if I did that! Max
silly_panda Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 Breaking up because of that reason for me is just stupid... Does he even care about how you feel and what you need..? He is only focusing on what he needs..? You sure you still wanna be around someone like this..?
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