featherbbb Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 I just need some help. We dated four years and have been so called seeing each other for the past two years. He did get into a relationship for about 6 months. It was a younger girl with some drug problems. I came back into his life a few months ago. Meanwhile I found out he knocked up a girl. I overlooked this. What really brought everything to a head was he won this cruise a few months back when we we not seeing each other. Said he didn't like the girl he was going with (stripper). BS I vowed not to talk to him anymore and was sad but not devastated like I am now. The girl he knocked up (his highscool sweetheart) ended up getting my number a told me the most awful things. She said he cheated on me with her the full four years we were . Since then they have had threesomes and he has been screwing many people. I've been tested so I'm clean. I called to ask him about his and the first 10 calls he ignored. I finally spoke to him and he was really short. He swore to god she was crazy and he did not sleep with her while were were in our relationship. He was in a real hurry to get off the phone with me. I've not taken this well at all. I see a therapist and take meds, but the other night I tried to hurt myself. I REALLY LOVE THIS GUY> Did he cheat on me? Does it matter? Why is he doing all this crazy sex stuff. I just cry and cry and cry and think about not being here sometimes.
masemaid Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Calm down now....look don't hurt yourself...take everything one day at a time.First thing i'm not going to tell you to leave him alone,but if your going to a therapist and taking meds...you have to get your life straight before you can talk to him again.....Temporary! Get yourself straight.Now on this cheating part....don't believe what anybody tell u except him...it is between u and him....everybody else is BS.If you really like this guy...chill out and lay low for awhile...if he doesn't come around call him in about two weeks or three weeks.Go out have fun with your friends..keep occupied.
moimeme Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Not exactly sure why you'd believe a stranger over your bf - and hurt yourself because of what she told you. I agree that you should stick with the therapist and get yourself sorted out. When that's done, then worry about him or find another guy.
shortbus74 Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 from experience..... it is really embarassing sometimes when people look at my arms and stare at the scars... Then ask me what happen, which I tell the truth. Life will go on for you. Plan for YOUR FUTURE! Look at the things in life that you want to do.
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