Friend quit talking to me three months ago. I texted her and got nothing back

[Kain Highwind]

Is that bad?

 

We used to be really close, like texting all day, ~60 texts at least 5 days a week close

 

I've always really liked her and well, we've been friends for like two years.

 

We were just going on like normal and then one day she quits replying to my texts, blocks me on Facebook, and says that we can't be friends anymore and that we should go our separate ways since she felt like I was too dependent on her (which I don't get, since if she thought that, she wouldn't have a problem with texting that much, right?)

 

Anyway, after she said that, she didn't reply to my texts after that (texted her asking what she meant about it or whatever. Pretty much asking why she thought thta way). I tried texting like a month after it happened, just trying to get on speaking terms again but she didn't reply

 

Its been nearly three months now and since I thought that'd be enough time (since what she said just implied to me that she wanted space), I tried texting her a few nights ago. Still didn't get a reply

 

Do you think she ignored it or do you think she's sticking by what she said? I mean, its been three months and we haven't talked once since. Wouldn't that sort of prove that I'm not dependent on her? Even then, we quit talking once before for a justified reason (I asked her out when she was dating someone (which I didn't know)), but that only lasted a month and we started after I ran into her once

 

She means the world to me and I just want to at least be friends again. More is what Iwant more than anything, but being friends right now would at least make me happy since we'd be talking again

 

I don't wanna give up so... Do you think she purposely ignored it or do you think she just missed it or something? (it was like 9 at night after the time change, so it was really like 10, on a night before she worked the next day and she's always been an early sleeper...)

[Bridgey]

She is purposefully ignoring you. Move on.

[Kain Highwind]

why would she still though?

 

Its been nearly three months...

[Bridgey]

Because you can't take the hint. She doesn't want to be friends with you. She knows you like her, she does not like you, she does not feel comfortable having you in her life. Period. End of story. Case closed.

[Kain Highwind]

She's known that I've liked her for at least a year though...

 

It never bothered her. I mean, we always went on picnics together in the park

[Rita86]

You really don't get it.

She does not want you in her Life.

Move On