Cut and run?

[perky_1979]

I have been with my girlfriend for nearly three yaers, moving in together just over a year ago. I always knew she had a temper but since we've lived together I've found myself on the wrong end of it on too many occasions.

The problem is I don't know wether I still love her and want to stay with her or wether I don't love her but don't want to change what is now familiar. I know that if our roles were reversed I would have been charged with spousal abuse by now but she has admitted to me that she has emotional issues and has arranged to see a counsellor about them. Should I stay with her and help her through this difficult time or cut my losses and leave her to sort herself out.

[masemaid]

hey man, if you leave her your less than a man,because you wouldn't want her to leave you if you were going through the situation she is going through.Be there for her and help...The best you can do...is either go with her..or when she comes back from her counseling..ask her about it. Be concerned about the situation.You have been with her for 3 years and you don't know if you love her.....spend some quality time with her.U and her...buy her a white rose...then tell her about you feel about the times that your on the wrong end of the stick.Be honest about everything...look her in her face and be strong and tell the truth.

Good luck

[Ashleym]

I have been in a situation similar to this. You love her and don't want to leave, but on the other hand you don't want this to happen again. If you love her as much as you say you do, stay with her and try to help her along the way. If she doesn't change, I would leave. I spent 7 years in a relationship with my ex who was both mentally and physically abusive to me. I finally said enough was enough and left him. It was a challenge after that, but I made it through.