nyckidd Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 So my ex broke it off with me over a month ago. I treid to get her back twice but she didnt want too. Even though she told me she loved me still etc. so after that went 2 weeks NC cause saw online that she was talking to some guy and going on dates etc. I was ready to move on but after 2 weeks of NC she text me and said hey idk if you mind me textin you but todays obviously the 7th (our anny) and i just wanted to say I was thinkin of you, hope everything is good, and i hope things are good with your fam . I didnt respond, even though I wanted to. I just ignored because I still dobt like what went down right after the breakup( especially after a 2 1/2 years.) Im considering reaching out to her, casue I do miss her. what do you all think is the right move here?
raymondebontrager Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I think you must listen her first before doing such thing like you did....maybe she has the reason why she do that..It could be so okey if you will talk to her and clear things up.
ken_25 Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 (edited) Your title suggests you can get her back if you want her back, why? Just because she texted you? Move forward, even if you two end up getting back together, it's too soon for that right now. If she wants you, she'll be trying to contact you again. Edited November 11, 2011 by ken_25
HonestMan Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 LISTEN: If you truly want her back DO NOT SAY A WORD STRICTLY SPEAKING- DO NOT SPEAK Not until she puts herself out there, otherwise its her making sure you're within reach If you reply to anything less then her putting herself out on the line You are giving her a license to be single - because she knows you are waiting&willing NO CONTACT MY FRIEND especially if you want her back NO CONTACT!
Steelrain322 Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 If you have to question yourself on whether or not you want her back.... That means she's the wrong girl.
silly_panda Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 If you do respond, make it short like "Everything is fine, thanks..." Her text doesn't really show anything... It's just her remembering some good memories... People take time to detach themselves... It doesn't mean she wants to get back though... So don't put yourself/your heart out there until you are really sure what she is trying to do...
lostcharm Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 If you have to question yourself on whether or not you want her back.... That means she's the wrong girl. Came here to say the same thing. Y'all broke up once already and now you're questioning getting back together? Just move on.
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