false idol Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 I guess the penultimate reason for this post, the reason that I actually created an account on a forum on a topic I've never before frequented is because I have absolutely no idea where I stand with this girl. Tired of feeling rejected and jerked around, I'm hoping that maybe somebody here can shed some light on what kind of response is expected of me when she behaves this way around me. This is a girl who, in a large group of people/available seats, routinely winds sitting up in my map (and nobody else's). But then would frequently moveif I ever put my hand on her. This list of trivial exchanges of mixed signals goes on, and is not exactly the point of the post. My general thought was just that she liked having a "safe" outlet to be flirty/coy, knowing that she had no intention on following through with those behaviors. Not being a particularly good looking person (the opposite is true of her) it took quite a bit of prodding from my friends just for me to consider the possibility she wanted something from me (romantic or physical or what have you, I don't know). The culminating moment of my confusion comes when we are hanging out in a small group, relatively inebriated, and she is being very physical with another boy, which I have no real interest in watching. So I left to go back to my room, and shortly afterward she follows me in. After hanging out for a little while, she winds up on my bed talking about how she wants somebody smart and funny and what have you and not somebody [like the boy in the other room] who has no interest in her beyond her body, and isn't even paying that much attention to her. Anyway, we're on my bed, holding hands and then all of a sudden she just gets up and leaves (I don't know for 100%, but I'm pretty sure she and the other boy hooked up that night, it's not something I cared to ask about). And that was the last time we really had much social interaction. I don't know if she feels like I betrayed our friendship by making unwanted sexual advances, but they didn't seem unwanted. I'm still somewhat sexually inexperienced, but I know I'm not the only person who thought she was in to me. I guess I'm just curious if anybody has any idea where I went wrong, or I don't even know what to ask people lol. What are people's thoughts on the exchange I guess?
Author false idol Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 dont mean to be a bumoer i just would really like some help
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