I have no title Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Well I met this guy for over than a month ago, and its going great, besides this little thing... For the past week, I've been the only one asking to see him..And he wanted to see me all of the times I asked for it, and I tried to stop asking him out, just to see if he will - and he didnt. After two days of not seeing each other because of that, I asked him : "Why am I the only one asking you out to see you lately? you dont wanna see me or what?" He said: "No, I actually was expecting you to ask to see me, and I just didnt think of asking you cause I thought you were just busy with other things." I said :"well, when you are not asking to see me, it gives me the impression that you're not wanting to see me" he said: "of course I want to see you, just ask next time, its just that I thought you were busy and you didnt want to see me..but yet sorry that I didnt ask you out these days, i just didnt think of it and I was expecting you to ask"... So the problem seems solved, but is it? Just two weeks ago he was the one asking to see me all the time, so I didnt have to bother about that..and now, he says he thought i had other things to do and he didnt think of asking me...We are dating for just a little over a month, and I am really crazy about this guy..besides that, everything is going great between us! he is texting me every day, asking me how was my day, talking to me every now and then, and saying that he is in love with me and he cares about me! it seems like that, but why is he then not asking to see me, and what should I do to make him realize that i dont want to be always the one asking to see him and I also want that from him! Am I just being paranoid or is it a reason to worry? Somebody calm me down...thank you very much!
Niagara Falls Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 you said it yourself that he felt like he was always the one asking to see you just 3 weeks ago. now that your asking its gone completely the other way. he loves the attention. the fact that your coming to him is making him feel amazing. this feeling is something that girls are used to but guys are not. ive been through the same situation as him. hes just caught in that feeling of being wanted to the point its distracting from the whole picture of the relationship. you guys are probably both crazy about eachother, so next time your in person just talk to him about it and mention how you guys are going and forth and should level it out so its a mutual thing to see eachother and not always one or the other asking. youll find it easy to talk to him about it and youll probably end up laughing and kidding over it. after a few months youll be used to eachother and your problem wont be a problem anymore
Author I have no title Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 Thank you Niagara Falls, for calming me down....really thought it was something wrong going on, but I will talk about it with him if I will notice that happening again..Im just being paranoid about many things, just cause Im really afraid to lose the relationship..probably should think positive and let it be, instead of thinking too much of what can happen!
musemaj11 Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 This guy is the male version of self-entitled woman.
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