joemax Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a house party. Made out that night. This past weekend she called me to find out what I was doing saturday night, we ended up meeting that night for a bit. Made out and just as we were about to get hot and heavy, I got cockblocked by her sister who lives with her. (that was saturday night) Anyways, I texted her yesterday going like : "hey (her family name), how was the rest of your weekend?" and no answer yet. should I not send anything else? or should I send something funny to find out why she hasn't texted me back ? thanks guys
rightfield Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Don't even send a smiley face or you'll be labeled needy. From what I've been able to gather, suddenly ignoring someone who you have given positive signs of affection is perfectly ok. It's fine to leave them hanging, and anyone who wonders why or follows up again is needy.
Author joemax Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 Don't even send a smiley face or you'll be labeled needy. From what I've been able to gather, suddenly ignoring someone who you have given positive signs of affection is perfectly ok. It's fine to leave them hanging, and anyone who wonders why or follows up again is needy. I'm guessing she has at least SOME interest in me, if not she wouldn't have called me saturday night and had me over at her house, right? So what do I do now? Do I not text or call her for a week or so?
Emilia Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Maybe she changed her mind in the cold light of a day. Unfortunate but there is nothing you can do.
Author joemax Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 Dont text her. You're a busy guy, do something else. Tom So I shouldn't even try to re-establish contact in the next week or so? Just forget about it?
Emilia Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 So I shouldn't even try to re-establish contact in the next week or so? Just forget about it? Just for your peace of mind call and leave her a voicemail if she doesn't pick up. If she doesn't return your call you will know you have tried everything.
Author joemax Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 Ugh, I just don't understand it. Could she really be taking the whole 'play hard to get' thing this far? But anyway, thanks guys.
Author joemax Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 I'm bumping this just 'cause I have a question: This is the first time she ignores me like this. Should I try to re-establish contact? Maybe a phone call wednesday/thursday to see what she's up to?
Author joemax Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 One more thing, do I mention the no text back when I call her?
jobaba Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 Met this girl about 3 weeks ago at a house party. Made out that night. This past weekend she called me to find out what I was doing saturday night, we ended up meeting that night for a bit. Made out and just as we were about to get hot and heavy, I got cockblocked by her sister who lives with her. (that was saturday night) Anyways, I texted her yesterday going like : "hey (her family name), how was the rest of your weekend?" and no answer yet. should I not send anything else? or should I send something funny to find out why she hasn't texted me back ? thanks guys I don't think it really matters how or what you text her at this point. You guys are attracted to each other and like each other. After that part is out of the way, the rest becomes easier. Just take it casually. It seems like you know what you are doing anyway, so why would you think what you text would be that important.
Author joemax Posted November 14, 2011 Author Posted November 14, 2011 I don't think it really matters how or what you text her at this point. You guys are attracted to each other and like each other. After that part is out of the way, the rest becomes easier. Just take it casually. It seems like you know what you are doing anyway, so why would you think what you text would be that important. I'm just confused as to why she didn't answer my text... also wondering if I should mention the no-text back when I call her thursday.
eweezzee Posted November 14, 2011 Posted November 14, 2011 you should def call her, even though its 2011 texts do randomly get lost, happens to me all the time. Lets say she didnt get it she would def be to embarresed to contact you after what happened. Id even call her today whats the big deal, this is from the weekend of the 5,6,7? if im reading your post right, you got nothing to lose, i would just ask if she got your text.
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