headsashed Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I dont know what it is but for the past few hours it feels like i was dumped only yesterday and ive been feeling great this past week or so,i cant stop thinking about her again and i dont know why. Maybe its because im finalising my move? Ive been decorating my new house the past few days and im about to take some furniture down,so maybe its all these memories thats close to being gone thats causing me to feel like this?.
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I dont know what it is but for the past few hours it feels like i was dumped only yesterday and ive been feeling great this past week or so,i cant stop thinking about her again and i dont know why. Maybe its because im finalising my move? Ive been decorating my new house the past few days and im about to take some furniture down,so maybe its all these memories thats close to being gone thats causing me to feel like this?. It's normal H. These feelings will come in waves. Just don't react to them. You feel this way because you're closing a chapter. The finality is hitting you. Deep down you know you're having to move on. Now that you are finalizing your move, you realize you can't bump into her anymore, that lifeline is being severed. Old memories of where you live and what you had with her are resurfacing because you're realizing that you will have to leave it behind. This is normal. It's not an indication of a set back. But just a step in your progression.
Author headsashed Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 I hope ur right geegirl,i wont react to my feelings as im too strong for that now,i actually expected for the hurt to come back sometimes but i just didnt expect it if you know what i mean. I think once ive moved ill hurt a little more and then ill be ok. I doubt ill see my ex much either even though im still living pretty close,unless she finds out my new address lol and she wont get it from me.
geegirl Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I hope ur right geegirl,i wont react to my feelings as im too strong for that now,i actually expected for the hurt to come back sometimes but i just didnt expect it if you know what i mean. I think once ive moved ill hurt a little more and then ill be ok. I doubt ill see my ex much either even though im still living pretty close,unless she finds out my new address lol and she wont get it from me. I felt the same way when I moved as well. Once you get into your new place and settle down, you will start to feel better again. It's new surroundings and you'll be creating new memories. It won't always be this way.
Author headsashed Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 im sure ill be ok,ive got through the 1st 2 months so i doubt it will get any harder? i hope not anyway
Bobby289 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 I like to think each low is a little bit higher than the last, but sometimes it just feels like day day 1 again. I feel you man.
ChelseaLS Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 When I moved out... that was a massive roller coaster of emotions. Moving is when it begins to feel very finalized. I hated my new place for about a week. Now I am getting more comfortable with it.
immitable Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 It's normal H. These feelings will come in waves. Just don't react to them. You feel this way because you're closing a chapter. The finality is hitting you. Deep down you know you're having to move on. Now that you are finalizing your move, you realize you can't bump into her anymore, that lifeline is being severed. Old memories of where you live and what you had with her are resurfacing because you're realizing that you will have to leave it behind. This is normal. It's not an indication of a set back. But just a step in your progression. I couldn't agree more, it is weird how these feelings come in waves.
Author headsashed Posted November 10, 2011 Author Posted November 10, 2011 im sure ill survive,i know im strong enough,sunday or monday and ill finally be gone and these memories will start to fade...I just hope from now on ill start to get good waves instead of bad ones.
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