ryanswife Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 I don't usually do anything like this, but i don't have anyone else to talk to. I have been married to my husband for a year, and we get along (almost) perfectly.My husband has a thing for pornography, and i despise it. he never did it in the beginning of the relationship, but i became pregnant with our daughter and it has just gotten worse. It not only hurts me because i feel rejected, but it disgusts me. I had to tell him a few times before he said he would stop. Now everytime i get on the computer the history is deleted. i am not sure if he is doing anything, or if i am just paranoid. i cannot just ask him about it because i think he is getting fed up with my nagging. i just don't know what to do, without feeling like i have no trust for him.
tanita Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 hi honey i know just how you feel and i have 1 tip for you -if you cannot beat it then join it my husband of 3 month seems addicted to porno ( at least i thinh he is ) and the best way to deal with it is to watch it too every night we watch porno 2gether and if he does it alone, i know it , so i feel a bit better even though i feel sometimes just like u---hurt & whatever at least i know he does it ,and not behind my back but beleive me well i guess all guys do it and so accept it or els you will suffer
moimeme Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 1. Guys are horny. A lot. 2. Guys need to do something about being horny. 3. If you're not available, or they're tired and just want to get rid of the horniness, they will find a way to do that. 4. Porn provides a rapid aid to arousal and relief. If he's favouring the porn over you, i.e. refusing sex with you to watch porn, then it's a problem.
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