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let it go, if it comes back it was meant to be if it doesn't it never was?

 

different variations of the same quote but all with the same meaning.

However my question is that does this hold any real truth in the world or is it just romanticism?

How long would you even measure the possibility of someone coming back? eg. you close your window of opportunity but they come back, is it still meant to be?

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Just romanticism, I've always viewed as a cheap excuse to giving up.

 

Unfortunately, since I've been taught to never give up, constantly persisting against your objective you only chase it away and the person has to come their own realisation that they want you and love you.

 

Hrmm...I guess to sum it up, I would try my damn best to save a relationship but if that isn't good enough then it is time to walk away.

Posted (edited)

It's both.

It does happen but it's only hopeless romanticism when you want it to come back and it doesn't. "How longs" can be decades. But you can't hold on to comething that wants to be free.

Edited by M2155
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