jnub09 Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 (edited) There is this girl that I have been trying to pursue for a while now. At first things were looking great. we were smiling and laughing together. IT has been going on and off. ON day about a month ago a friend that also likes her, asked her out for me without permission. SHe gave me the she saw me as a friend line. Since then I have been stressed out about getting out of the friends zone. which has caused me to focus on losing the nice guy label (displaying an opnion opposite of hers, actually pissing her off). So now I found myself at a state where she doesn't seem like she wants to talk to me. I want to build myself back up with her, but I also want to be in a more romantic relationship with her rather than platonic. ANy tips? Edited November 10, 2011 by jnub09 too vague
carhill Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Ask someone else on a date, yourself. Prior, do not discuss your interest in anyone with your male friends. Keep it to yourself.
Feelin Frisky Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Face that it's a bust. You probably can't make it better in the short term, so close down the operation and more on. Don't look back.
Emilia Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 It's gone and I'm not sure how much chance you had in the first place either as you have never really dated by the sound of it. Carhill is right, keep your love interests to yourself in the future
Author jnub09 Posted November 11, 2011 Author Posted November 11, 2011 So what if I want to be her friend? CAn we at least do that.
Emilia Posted November 11, 2011 Posted November 11, 2011 You have feelings for her, it's best if you don't try to be friends I think.
blaze918 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 You've already expressed that you were interested and she turned you down in the nicest way she knew how. Ask her if she has any cute single friends you can meet. Girls are awesome for networking with.
blaze918 Posted November 12, 2011 Posted November 12, 2011 Sounds like she is out of your league...not much you can do except wait for her to become way less hott (get old, get knocked up and dumped by a bf) , or get way bettering looking yourself/ make a ton of money. Your numbers mismatch...it's as simple as that.
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