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I am usually good when it comes to relationship stuff and other people but absolutely sucks when it comes to me (I have no idea why??) So I thought it might be a good idea to get some perspective, and answers from strangers who won't be biased (unlike mine and her friends) so here it goes.

 

Issue:

I started liking this girl at work who is into me as well. We have hung out alot and have been on a couple of date (no intimacy however) and we spend alot of time together (Hanging out and texting from the time we wake up to the time we sleep) So I finally decided to ask her what we were. Now here is where it gets confusing. She said we are friends but also dating (Friends and dating -- Exact text) so What does that exactly mean? I have never before heard that statement in my life and am wondering what it means exactly.

 

(also, she told me she loved me and cared for me but not that way)

 

backstory:

 

She moved from the Philippines here and was in a serious relationship (her only one, but they broke up when she was there) and got into a serious argument about a week ago (he admitted to cheating on her etc) and she is emotionally distressed. I am 100 million % willing to wait for her if she needs it.

 

 

What do you fine people think?

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