StrawberryBlonde Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Our two-year anniversary is coming up in a few days , but lately ive been so frustrated and anxious and confused . I don't know whether i should stay with him or break up . Even though i can tell that the feelings have gotten deeper, and we do love each other , but we are still only seeing each other as often as we did when we first met, . I know that we are both busy , and i can't accuse him of choosing his buddies over me , but there is still something missing because i feel like this relationship is going nowhere. Ive tried talking to him about it , but we both get upset. Is it wrong for me to want to know whats going on ? i mean , it HAS been two years ? should i just keep on waiting ? Or sould I think , "If i don't know by now , then ill never know at all" ? Its not like i want him to drop down on his knees or anything , but i still feel like i need to know where this is going and what he wants out of this relationship .
Kriz Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Mmmm.... What's your age? Do you live together? Do you want to?
Author StrawberryBlonde Posted May 22, 2004 Author Posted May 22, 2004 im 19 . its not that i want him to move in with me or anything. i just need to now that im not stuck in some dead-end relationship .
bluechocolate Posted May 22, 2004 Posted May 22, 2004 Originally posted by StrawberryBlonde I know that we are both busy , and i can't accuse him of choosing his buddies over me , but there is still something missing because i feel like this relationship is going nowhere. Ive tried talking to him about it , but we both get upset. Is it wrong for me to want to know whats going on ? i mean , it HAS been two years ? should i just keep on waiting ? Or sould I think , "If i don't know by now , then ill never know at all" ? Its not like i want him to drop down on his knees or anything , but i still feel like i need to know where this is going and what he wants out of this relationship . What is it that you want to know? Where is it that you want your relationship to go? You say that you need to know where this is going & what he wants out of this relationship, but before you can properly ask him these questions you need to be clear about what it is exactly that YOU want. If you can't honestly answer those questions yourself then you can't expect him too. Either that, or maybe your relationship has reached it's natural conclusion.
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