LostAndEmpty Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 Went out with a girl for 3 years... we had our bumps, but when things were good, we were right on. In October, I gave her a promise ring. It was well-received and I was on cloud 9. 2 weeks later, she dumped me via text message and barely speaks to me at all. I'm not sure what to think - she had agreed to go to dinner with me at one point. She bailed for a family commitment which is fine, but when she bailed I asked if she was even interested and she said yes, she was. Then on Monday of this week, I received a text from her telling me she still loves me and cares for me. It also said "I'm just not in the right space right now with us". What should I think/do here? I've been trying to respect her and give space via NC, but some of the signs here make me feel like she's potentially interested in reconciling ("right now", the dinner, etc.).
USMCHokie Posted November 10, 2011 Posted November 10, 2011 More likely than not there's a new dude she fancies. Run. Far. And fast. Reconciliation has to come from 100% HER effort. If she wants to reconcile, she needs to make it happen, not you. The only thing you should be doing is dating other women. And going to the gym. Edit: just saw it was a 3 year relationship. Maybe you shouldn't be dating other women just yet...so just go to the gym.
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